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HOW TO STYLE: Kerry Otto

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Kerry Otto’s AFTER finished look. (Photo by Julie Smith)

Model Kerry Otto BEFORE her “How to Style” experience. 

2018 is a big year for Kerry Otto. The 24-year-old Westphalia native got engaged Dec. 29, a complete surprise from her now fiancé Zachary Massman while visiting Nashville, Tennessee with friends.

“He surprised me with a rare whiskey bottle that he had engraved from our visit to the Jack Daniels distillery the day before,” she said.
“It said, ‘Will you marry me?’ Then he got down on one knee and pulled out the ring!”

Zachary and Kerry met while going to Fatima High School and dated for several months. Kerry spent her first semester of college
at University of Central Missouri in Warrensburg then transferred to Lincoln University, graduating in business administration. Shortly after she came back home, Zachary and Kerry started dating again and have been together for about six years. Kerry now works as a cash applications specialist with Farmer Holding Company and Zachary is an electrician at Meyer Electric.

The happy couple’s wedding date is Sept. 22, 2018, with the ceremony at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Westphalia and the reception at Westphalia Lions Club.  Kerry attended the 2018 Bridal Spectacular Jan. 8 at The LINC and entered HER Magazine’s makeover contest, beating out more than 100 women to win.

Kerry was in love with the color combination stylist Logan DuBois at Simply Beautiful Salon & Spa, LLC chose. Logan also gave her normally straight, fine hair big curls.

The makeup portion was a big highlight for Kerry, who was excited to try something new and see if that makeup could work for her wedding day. Simply Beautiful owner Danielle Withouse utilized mauve tones that made Kerry’s baby blue eyes pop.

“I love getting my makeup done, but I don’t do it often,” Otto said. “I really liked the colors she used and it looks really flattering. … The salon’s atmosphere is so relaxing and beautiful. Logan and Danielle were so professional and very nice and attentive.”

Comfortable and flattering are important qualities in Kerry’s current wardrobe, however, she also likes to throw in a bit of bling in moderation. Simply Chic Boutique delivered with two different trendy, casual spring looks for Kerry.

“Their clothes are cute and very affordable,” Kerry said.

Meet The Gurus

Logan DuBois

Logan DuBois

Stylist, Simply Beautiful Salon & Spa, LLC

A stylist for almost six years, Logan has taken classes on many topics, including product knowledge of Joico, Redken, Paul Mitchell, Aquage, Caption Polish, and the Rodan+Fields line the salon uses for facials. Additional education includes cutting classes to learn different techniques from razor cuts to texturizing, and experience with Hotheads hair extensions. Logan enjoys making her guests feel their best. She is accepting new guests.

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Danielle Withouse

Danielle Withouse

Owner, Simply Beautiful Salon and Spa, LLC

Danielle, a Merrill University graduate, has practiced for 26 years, and has been a master stylist/esthetician for 25 years. She has trained with many educators and product lines, including Aveda, Aquage, Alterna, Jack Winn Color, Paul Mitchell, Goldwell and Redken. Danielle ensures guests receive the best from her, feel loved and pampered, and are able to re-create the same results at home. At Simply Beautiful, every guest’s “inner beauty” blooms!

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New clothes and accessories arrive weekly at Simply Chic.

Kiley Hartzler, Shelia Berhorst and Rachel Nesmeyer

Owners, Simply Chic Boutique

Kiley Hartzler’s biggest priority in life is her family. As a retired fire captain, she realizes the importance of never wanting to miss anything important again and never knowing what life can bring. She left her career in the fire service last year, pursuing her passion for fashion design. She wanted to create a boutique with unique, affordable and on trend items, including handmade leather jewelry Kiley makes. Her style tends to be more southern and casual, but loves that the Simply Chic team all brings different styles to the mix. Sheila Berhorst is a web analytics specialist by day and a wife and mom by night. She began her career in retail sales one year ago, selling clothing out of her home from a well-known retailer. Since opening Simply Chic Boutique, she has branched out and has sold items and accessories more to her liking. She said, “Running a boutique with Kiley and Rachel has been one of the more rewarding things I have done in my life.” Rachel Nesmeyer works full time as a quality control technician for Capital Materials. She is engaged to be married in September. She loves helping ladies with their style and wants them to feel empowered.

The Style

Clothing: Kerry’s two outfits complimented her comfortable, yet feminine style. The first paired a white sleeveless blouse accented with colorful pink flowers with black jeans and a trendy distressed denim jacket. A long turquoise necklace and matching ring, provided chic accents to the overall look. Kerry’s second outfit matched distressed denim jeans with a light purple long-sleeved top that sports ruched sides and a partially open back with a criss-cross design. Copper colored hoop earrings and a long matching knotted necklace add the right amount of bling, and a YOUR MAXCo handmade bag were matched to each outfit. New clothing in sizes small to 3X, jewelry and accessories arrive at Simply Chic weekly and a limited number of each keep items unique, offering the perfect outfit for every women at an affordable price.

Make-up: Danielle used Rodan + Fields Bright Eye Complex Cream under her eyes to moisturize and combat puffiness and dark circles, and Rodan + Fields Soothe Regimine to reduce redness and treat her sensitive skin. Danielle applied a Fair Foundation and Translucent powder, adding a soft amount of contouring for her blush to enhance Kerry’s porcelain skin tone. Danielle chose a palette of soft to deep mauve shadows and enhanced her brows with a coppery-blonde to achieve a fuller and sharper look. Black liner was used to wing and smooth along her lash line, followed by a noir/black mascara to make Kerry’s stunning blue eyes eyes pop. A deep mauve lip liner and softer mauve lip stain with glosser finished Kerry’s look.

Hair: Following Kerry’s consultation, Logan chose a Natural Balyage Technique of a soft cool blonde and a warm copper Shadow Root from the Jack Winn Color Line, which gives vibrancy and shine without damage to fine hair. Once processed, Logan washed Kerry’s hair with Aquage Strengthening Shampoo, Silkening Power Infusion and Healing Conditioner. Logan then cut long layers, adding face-framing layers to give lift and movement without losing length before Kerry’s upcoming wedding. Logan added Aquage Silkening Oil Treatment to the hair ends for shine and frizz control, Paul Mitchell Extra-Body Daily Boost spray to her base for volume and Extra Body Sculpting Foam mid-shaft to ends to achieve ultimate volume before blow drying. Logan used Aquage Beyond Body Sealing Spray on each section styled to protect and set her hair with loose, casual curls. Using Aquage Biomega Freeze Baby Spray, Logan completed Kerry’s soft, romantic look.

Kerry Otto's "How to Style" Experience
(Photo by Samantha Pogue) Logan applies color to Kerry's hair.
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Delivering a ‘Little Box of Sunshine’

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A Helias sophomore sees continued growth in her nonprofit

that gives care packages to child hospital patients

Story and photos by Samantha Pogue

Equipped with an empty white box in hand, St. Martins middle school girls stared down a long line of tables covered in toys, puzzles and games in their school’s gymnasium.

Following their eighth grade peer Addison Schroer’s lead, they selected one of each item on their side and placed it in the box. But it wasn’t a speedy, grab-and-go assembly line. The choices they made for each item came with much thought, pairing Minions Band-aids with the same character toys or heart-shaped stickers with puzzles of the same hue.

Olivia Hennon puts the finishing touches on a full “Little Box of Sunshine” at the Girls Night Out event Feb. 3 at St. Martins School.

Once the box reached its brim with 10 or so items, they selected a personalized handmade card from young area students. Each was adorned with hand-drawn pictures and shared messages like “I hope you feel better” or “always have faith.”

Folding in yellow tissue paper and placing the card on top, the girls left the box at the end of the table for 16-year-old Olivia Hennon. The Helias Catholic High School sophomore put the finishing touches on each box: an enclosed story about how the nonprofit organization Hennon founded came to be and a sticker that exemplifies what each package truly is, a Little Box of Sunshine.

One hundred “Little Boxes of Sunshine” were assembled during the Girls Night Out event Feb. 3. They enjoyed mass and dinner, and played icebreaker bingo and minute to win it games. They also learned to write apology or appreciation letters to someone, compose compliments of love and encouragement, and create something for someone else in need, themed after a bible verse to “seek justice, love mercy and walk humbly.”

By “walking humbly,” those girls have brought joy and happiness to children who experience long periods alone in hospitals awaiting treatments and receiving intensive medical treatment with this simple care package.

Since founding the organization in 2016, Hennon and a group of contributors and volunteers have distributed more than 500 boxes to children’s hospitals across the Midwest. Fellow student and community support, events like Girls Night Out and upcoming fundraisers like the second annual 5K Walk, Run and Roll April 28 in Jefferson City only help the organization spread sunshine to even more children.

Seek Justice

Little Box of Sunshine started after Hennon became good friends with a girl she first met at art camp, Margaret Romph. At 5 years old, Romph was injured in a car accident on Jan. 2, 2009, breaking her neck in two places, breaking both of her legs and suffering two spinal cord injuries. She was dead at the scene, but revived.

Little Box of Sunshine Founder and Board President Olivia Hennon showcases a few completed packages filled with fun activities that children experiencing long hospital stays alone will receive in the near future.

“She is paralyzed from the neck down and on a ventilator. She continues to face the daily struggles of life as a quadriplegic with a smile that can brighten up any room. Margaret inspires me every day with her kind yet sassy attitude and positive outlook on life,” Hennon said of the now 14 year old.

Over Christmas break in 2015, Hennon was talking with her uncle about Romph and how she felt things weren’t fair to her. He suggested Hennon do something. That next summer Hennon’s dear friend was in the hospital for 67 days, and while visiting Romph and her family there she saw other children dropped off and left alone for several days or even weeks until time for them to leave.

“That wasn’t easy to watch. They didn’t have anything to play with or do besides the few therapists there could give them,” Hennon said. “I thought this was one thing I could do, to give them something.”

That something became a Little Box of Sunshine. This box is filled with 10 to 12 games, activities, stickers, handmade pillow cases and care package items that keep children experiencing long hospital stays often alone entertained and active.

Before the first box was delivered, Hennon knew she needed to set up her new charitable cause for success. She first held a fundraiser to sell T-shirts and was pleasantly surprised to sell 150. With money to put into their cause, Hennon and her parents, Lisa and Doug, talked to CPA Lorelei Schwartz, who guided them in what they needed to do to become a nonprofit organization. They spent the first four months opening up a separate bank account, establishing themselves as a nonprofit organization, applying for tax-exempt status and completing all the necessary paperwork to get started.

Hennon held her first box assembly at Helias, putting together 100 boxes she and her parents brought to three St. Louis hospitals: Shriners Hospital for Children, St. Louis Children’s Hospital and SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital.

“When we deliver them we don’t get to go into the rooms. But at one hospital they had one patient who was out and about, so they just brought her down and we got to meet her. That was really fun,” Hennon said. “We put all of our information in the boxes, which has our P.O. Box, so about two in every 100 we deliver we have received a note of thanks back. … It is awesome because you know somebody actually got it.”

Love Mercy

That first encounter and delivery fueled Hennon’s passion for Little Box of Sunshine even more.

Everywhere Hennon and her family visited, they would check to see if there was a hospital they could stop at. As a result, since starting the organization in June 2016, they have delivered boxes to a hospital while visiting Doug’s family in Kansas City, in Michigan while on vacation and in Indianapolis while Hennon and a group of fellow teens from Immaculate Conception Parish attended the National Catholic Youth Conference. “We squeeze in deliveries wherever we can. It doesn’t take that long,” Hennon said with a smile.

The gratification of knowing a child’s day will be brightened by that little box of sunshine comes with each delivery. However, the many steps, hard work and preparation it takes to get to that point are just as gratifying.

Every organization starts with a passionate board of directors. Lisa and Doug continue to back up their daughter, the board president, serving as treasurer and vice president respectively. Additional board members include Hennon’s aunt Julie Maschmann, Romph’s mother Sherline, family friend Linda Harvey, Tina Jenkins and Helias campus minister Maureen Quinn, who knows the importance of Little Box of Sunshine very well.

From left, St. Martins eighth-graders Emily Prey, Audrey Cook, Bailey Lage and Addison Schroer display finished Little Box of Sunshine packages.

“I was a cancer survivor as a kid. … I was in the hospital throughout a six-month period a few weeks at a time. I had my left kidney removed and would be back in for chemo treatments. … For me, I remember people delivering items. My dad’s work delivered a box. … I know how much these boxes make an impact on kids,” she said. “I did know people who had passed away while I was there. I know people who had been in the hospital for years. … Those kids (in the hospital) deserve this opportunity to know that they are loved. Even though these guys can’t be with them, they are thinking about them and praying for them.”

In January, two students Addison and Carson Schroer joined the Little Box of Sunshine board after volunteering at other Little Box of Sunshine events and activities. Addison first heard Hennon speak at her school, St. Martins Catholic School, about Little Box of Sunshine and knew she wanted to get involved. Since joining the board, eighth grader Addison has held a toy drive where students could donate gently used and new items, and organized and co-hosted the Girls Night Out event for fellow middle-schoolers.

“I think God put us on the world to help others, and that is what I want to do as much as I can. I love seeing someone smile because what I did or a group of us did. Seeing someone that might not be as happy in the hospital smile, bringing them joy is just a reward for us,” Addison said.

Rewards also come from fundraisers organized to raise money for Little Box of Sunshine. In September 2016, Little Box of Sunshine partnered in the annual golf tournament hosted by Miracles for Margaret, a charitable cause supporting Romph. Now co-sponsoring the event for two years, the organizations have raised $12,000 total, splitting proceeds 50-50 and presenting a $1,000 scholarship to a young Jefferson City man who is going to EMT school. Hennon and Romph would like to expand scholarship opportunities for area school students in the future.

Last year, the same two organizations co-hosted the inaugural Little Box of Sunshine 5K Walk, Run and Roll, which is open to anyone, including individuals in wheelchairs, along the Jefferson City Greenway Trail off West Edgewood Drive. Despite rainy conditions, 123 finishers participated and each organization earned $400. This year’s event is set for 9 a.m. April 28 at the same location.

“My biggest goal for the 5K was to get more rollers. We had people registered last year but they couldn’t come because of the heavy rain. The other people, we love having them, but the rolling part is what makes our 5K different,” Hennon said.

Seventh-grader Hayley Fender decides which lip balm to include in her box themed for a girl.

Other generous contributions have come from donations to a memorial set up in honor of Hennon’s late grandfather, a recent Chick-fil-A fundraiser and continued toy drives, T-shirt sales and other individual monetary contributions and purchases through AmazonSmile.

Walk Humbly

Hennon has seen not only the community step up to support Little Box of Sunshine but also her peers. Through box assemblies organized around events like Schroer’s Girls Night Out or a service opportunity during Catholic Schools Week, the students have been eager to get involved.

“We are having a drive right now where students can bring in toys or items. This little girl came up to me and said, ‘I have this giraffe and I don’t want it anymore so I’m going to give it to Little Box of Sunshine.’ … She set it down in the box and said, ‘I’m going to miss that giraffe,’” Schroer said with a smile. “That was so sweet. Knowing other little kids at that age want to help other little kids is so awesome.”

Hennon, Schroer and fellow volunteers put just as much thought and care into what goes in each box as that little kindergartner contributing her beloved giraffe. Shopping for items is often one of their favorite activities with the organization. Outside of the many items they receive, they watch sales at Walmart, Five Below and on Oriental Trading Company, or raid the dollar sections of Target. Every once and awhile they get a request to create a “big box of sunshine” for a specific patient like Lizzy Wampler of Columbia, whose classmate’s mother contacted Hennon through the organization’s Facebook page.

“I looked her up on Facebook and saw what she looked like and I told this lady … to get some ideas from her classmates of what she would like. We ended up with a big list of ideas and this cute little girl’s face, so we went to Target and were like, ‘We are getting everything,’” Hennon said with a laugh.

Typically the boxes are not personalized, but these shopping experiences and the attention the kids put into assembling them with themes make each box special.

“We’ll flip through all the handmade cards and pick out the perfect one. All the boxes are not personalized, but they have a personality to them,” Schroer said.

“And I believe the kid with that personality is going to get that box,” Hennon added.

Other students fully committed to the organization, getting hooked to the cause it represents. Sixteen-year-old Helias sophomore Molly Bruns is one of those volunteers. After the first summer the organization started, Bruns became more involved with Little Box of Sunshine, assembling boxes in the fall of 2016. She has helped during the first 5K, ran out to purchase 145 bananas at Walmart for that event and delivered boxes to the Indianapolis hospital during the National Catholic Youth Conference, to name a few.

“When you’re building boxes you know it is going to a great place to help kids. You get there and it hits you there are kids here that will benefit from this,” she said. “It is a great opportunity, especially when you get to help a great organization run by a young girl just like you. It is inspiring.”

For Hennon, encouraging children to help children is at the core of Little Box of Sunshine. Whether it is assembling a box, donating a toy or simply committing a random act of kindness for someone else, she knows how impactful it can be. She saw it at the Girls Night Out event, she sees it at the area schools she attends and visits, and she sees it every time she delivers a box to a children’s hospital.

“It is not adults giving them something. It is from someone their age thinking about them. It makes it more special,” she said. “You don’t have to make a big difference either. When I talk to schools like St. Martins, I say, ‘When you are walking out of  the gym this morning, hold the door for the person behind you; that will make them smile.’ That is making a difference, too.”

Ways to help

Handmade cards with inspiring messages from area children are also welcome and needed for each Little Box of Sunshine.

Donations of time and talent:

• Cards handmade by children are included in each box and always needed. Donated cards should be encouraging with sayings such as “Get Well Soon” or “Thinking of You.” They should also include the first name and age of the child who made the card.

• Second Annual Little Box of Sunshine 5K Walk, Run and Roll is a great way to raise funds for Little Box of Sunshine. It will take place at 9 a.m. Saturday, April 28 at Jefferson City Greenway Trail along West Edgewood Drive in Jefferson City. Early bird registration is $25 per person, with registration after April 14 $30 per person. For more information or to register, email Olivia Hennon at olivia.hennon1701@gmail.com or visit facebook.com/littleboxofsunshine or http://littleboxofsunshine.weebly.com.

Donations of Treasure:

Books       Coloring Books       Crayons       DVDs       Gel Pens       Kaleidoscopes

Play-Doh       Small Puzzles       Card Games       Fun Socks       Stickers        Stress Balls

Chapstick       Small Figurines       Bracelets       Window Clings       Colorful Pillowcases

Small New Stuffed Animals       Other Small Toys And Games

2018 Girls Night Out/Little Box of Sunshine Assembly
The Girls Night Out event, organized by Little Box of Sunshine board member Addison Schroer and founder Olivia Hennon, kicked off with with icebreaker bingo.
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Dancing their way to the top

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The Infamous Royal Tigerettes have built a successful dance program
on organization, hard work and camaraderie

Story by Samantha Pogue • Photos by Mark Wilson

Sixteen-year-old Ashantiera Brown had little dance experience before joining the Infamous Royal Tigerettes majorette dance team about two years ago.

After she started practicing with her fellow teammates three to four times a week at the Pawley Theater at Lincoln University, her knowledge of various dance styles, unified and individual movements, and cool tricks like the challenging death drop became second nature.

“I remember performing for the first time with the group and it was in front of a big crowd, which I had never done before. … That feeling that I am actually doing this for the first time was an amazing moment,” Ashantiera said. “Now, I have realized I’m improving a lot, from splits to death drops. I didn’t really know how to do a lot when I first joined the team and now it comes easy because of the teaching and the support.”

The Infamous Royal Tigerettes majorette dance team includes: (holding banner from left) Trenatta Woodruff, Tatianna Harris, Serenity Blunt and team captain Yessnia Austin; (back from left) Director Mecca Austin-Dixon, Tranae’ Woodruff, Jerica Austin, Lyric Hearn, Ashantiera Brown, Da’Mia Day, Mariya Wilson, London Hearn, assistant coach Tammeron Henderson and coach T’airra Wheeler, far right.

Since Mecca Dixon and her now 17-year-old daughter, Yessnia Austin, co-founded the Infamous Royal Tigerettes in late 2015, the group has increased the Jefferson City community’s exposure to the growing trend of majorette dancing. They hosted and participated in The Street Dance Battle in May 2016, performed in countless community parades, presented annual showcases, competed at majorette dance contests, engaged audiences at numerous festivals and events, and exhibited their talents Feb. 23 at Lincoln University in “A Night in Harlem,” an artistic expression of music, dance, poetry and more recognizing the Harlem Renaissance era.

The team does not only showcase this unique, mesmerizing blend of ballet, jazz, hip-hop, lyrical and majorette dance to the community year-round. They also encourage all children from grades kindergarten through 12th with a passion for dance to be a part of their team free of charge.

“I want to create a sisterly bond throughout the community,” Yessnia said. “Even though they may not have money, it doesn’t matter. It is about developing your dance skills and having fun.”

Stepping up to the challenge

Yessnia and Mecca share a love for dance.

While attending Lincoln University, Mecca, a Chicago native, was a member of the college’s marching band, the Marching Musical Storm. After moving back to Jefferson City and working as a customer relations specialist at her alma mater, Mecca has served as the flag line instructor for the band for many years.

From a young age Yessnia has danced, first learning ballet, tap, jazz and hip-hop at a dance company while living in Chicago. She continued to practice on her own after moving to Jefferson City in 2014, but she missed actively performing her lifelong passion.

That same year, the Lifetime television network introduced a new docu-series, “Bring It!” which followed one of the top majorette dance teams in the country, The Dancing Dolls of Jackson, Mississippi. Yessnia was in awe of their collegiate level of dancing that incorporated a variety of styles to choreographed routines. She had the same feelings of inspiration when watching the talented LU Blue Flames dance team perform locally, and she decided to create her own majorette group for area youth.

Yessnia Austin performs a move with fellow Tigerettes, often doing a solo as the captain of the dance group.

When Yessnia expressed her interest in forming such a team, Mecca and two members of the Marching Musical Storm, T’airra Wheeler and Jessie Davis, helped Yessnia start The Infamous Royal Tigerettes. Mecca serves as the team director, and T’airra is now head coach alongside assistant coach Tammeron Henderson, who had performed with the LU Blue Flames until she graduated in 2006.

With experienced dancers in place to help guide the team, Yessnia first talked to girls at school who had some dance experience and liked the activity.

“They were excited to do something like this group,” she said. “Then I started creating flyers to advertise tryouts for quite awhile so everyone had a chance to come.”

The Infamous Royal Tigerettes began with five girls, but once the team started to showcase their hard work and talents to the community, more girls participated and built the team up to about 20. Now, the dedicated group of about 11 to 12 girls continually boosts the momentum the Tigerettes have created for youth majorette dance in the area. Yessnia wants to see the group grow in size, age range and inclusion of anyone interested in dancing.

“I want to include everyone because everyone deserves a chance, especially the younger girls like the ones in elementary school. The more they get that muscle memory of dancing, the more they will want to do it,” she said. “I created this because I wanted to share something I created with the people I love, and dancing is something I love passionately. The more I get to teach it to other people, it is like ‘YES!’”

Becoming local royalty in majorette dancing

The Infamous Royal Tigerettes kick off each practice with stretches and exercises, led by their captain, Yessnia. She then will show the team new techniques, including moves from multiple genres of dance that are incorporated into majorette collegiate level dancing, as well as tricks used in routines such as the splits or the proper way to do a backbend.

Trenatta Woodruff flashes a smile while doing a dance move during a recent Infamous Royal Tigerettes practice at Lincoln University’s Pawley Theater.

“At first I didn’t know how to do a backbend, but they taught me and now I know how to do it,” said 12-year-old Tatianna Harris, who has been with the team for about two years.

The Tigerettes then begin practicing their routines or learning new ones. Yessnia choreographs dances, as do coaches T’airra and Tammeron, and guest choreographers.

“Sometimes we have guest choreographers who will help with a specific technique, for example, teaching a ballet move for a specific portion of one of our routines,” Yessnia said.

Yessnia, T’airra and Tammeron incorporate elements of ballet, jazz, lyrical and hip-hop into their dance routines, creating a unique blend of majorette similar to the Blue Flames. The variety also goes with different performances they are preparing for, knowing competition dances will vary from ones used in parades or their upcoming annual showcase at 3 p.m. Sunday, May 20 at Lincoln University, Pawley Theater in Martin Luther King Hall, which will exhibit a variety of routines the team has done all year.

“I don’t do a specific type of dance through a routine because it wouldn’t be as interesting. Our main dances are majorette and hip-hop, but for showcases we also do classic and contemporary lyrical dancing. We are getting more into ballet and have used some African dancing, as well,” Yessnia said. “We teach them and critique them to continually improve. Our teaching style is not fast paced, but at the girls’ pace. Everybody has a different learning style. Some are visual and some of them are not. We just learn as much as we can.”

The practices keep the team on top of their numerous routines performed throughout the year, with annual events they attend like parades and holiday celebrations, as well as new events like a salute to Women’s History Month, Standing in the Footsteps of Giants, scheduled at 3:30 p.m. Sunday, March 18 at Lincoln University’s Pawley Theater.

The Infamous Royal Tigerettes practice a routine during a recent practice.

The girls were assigned one or two important African-American women in history they had to research and craft a presentation about for the program, which will also include dancing.

“It will be in the style of living windows, featuring politicians, lawyers, super models, judges, astronauts, sports athletes and so many others. It is all about women,” Tammeron said. “We wanted them to represent women that would encourage the community attending the event to find out more about some of these amazing women or find out something new and different that they didn’t already know about, and that goes for the girls learning about these women, too.”

Caring for one another first, dancing second

Imparting life lessons is a big part of the Infamous Royal Tigerettes. For T’airra, this group is more than just a fun way to share her dance training with youth in her community while studying business administration before graduation in December. She understands the importance of what it means to these young girls.

“When I was young, I was in a dance team like this that was free for anyone who wanted to participate. … I want the kids to be able to come and dance when they want to and not pay a fee,” she said. “Most moms and dads are by themselves and don’t have the funds to do it. This way their kids get the experience the way I experienced it.”

The team hosts fundraisers to purchase new uniforms, such as car washes and bake sales. The Tigerettes also host parties for middle-schoolers that include canned food drives or other charitable activities, and also earn enjoyable lock-ins and parties of their own.

Tigerettes standing at attention before practicing a routine behind captain Yessnia Austin, front, are (middle from left) Tatianna Harris, Trenatta Woodruff and Serenity Blunt; and (back from left) London Hearn, Ashantiera Brown, Tranae’ Woodruff, Da’Mia Day, Lyric Hearn and Jerica Austin.

“When I’m around these girls so much, their personalities are rubbing off, which is a good thing. I don’t have sisters, so it is nice to know that I have them,” said Da’Mia Day, a 16-year-old Tigerette who has been with the team since day one. “On this team, we make sure we take care of each other first and dance second.”

Yessnia said even though the team schedules many performances throughout the year, working with all the girls’ extracurricular and school schedules is important. For example, Yessnia is also in show choir, co-captain of a step team at her school and works for the school newspaper as a writer and photographer. Like many of the Tigerettes, she is working to also build her resume for college, looking to pursue performance arts in dancing, singing and acting, as well as music engineering.

“I like we have an organized dance team and program. They love us and care for us. They treat everyone like family and their own kids. We practice to get it right and want us to look good but have fun with it. They want us to enjoy it,” said Jerica Austin, a 14-year-old Tigerette. “There are times where life is hard, but they are here to help us get back up. This team is like another family, and if something happens we all try to do our best to fix it.”

That feeling is mutual for everyone involved with the Infamous Royal Tigerettes.

“They are so lovable and they do bring out the best in us, too,” Tammeron said. “They come here and they work hard. … This group is open to all kids who want to learn, dance and have a great time doing it.”

For more information about the Infamous Royal Tigerettes, upcoming performances or information on how to join, email royaltigerettes@gmail.com or visit their Facebook page

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Her eye’s on the target

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18-year-old Jordan Dearman successfully aims toward

gaining national titles and sponsorship

Story by Samantha Pogue • Photos by Collin Krabbe

Jordan Dearman’s father Gil had an enjoyable, encouraging way to teach his young daughter aim and accuracy when shooting a bow and arrow.

“When I was very young just starting out, my dad would give me a quarter if I hit a balloon (during target practice). I would try to hit them all so I could get more money,” she said with a smile and a giggle.

But when Jordan was 9 years old competing in her first national tournament in Louisville, Kentucky, she realized that continued practice would pay off in more ways than one and archery was more than just an enjoyable recreational activity to enjoy with her family.

Jordan Dearman was recently sponsored by Mathews Archery and plans to continue competing while studying to be a dental hygienist.

“I got third place in the 13 and under division,” she said. “That really lit a fire, and I’ve been doing it ever since.”

Now an 18-year-old senior at Jefferson City High School, Jordan has added to her ample local, regional and national archery award collection, securing fourth through first place plaques in all seven national Archery Shooters Association 3D Season competitions last year and the 2017 Shooter of the Year champion title in the Women’s Known 40 class.

Now backed by national sponsor Mathews Archery, Inc., Dearman hopes to secure another successful 3D season, more championship titles and many more archery accolades in adulthood. She certainly has her eye on the target.

“Jordan puts 110 percent into everything she does whether it is school or archery,” said Sonia, Jordan’s mother. “We are so proud of her and encourage her to follow her passion.”

Making the draw

Before she began popping balloon targets with her arrows, she watched her older brother Justin learn the sport from Gil, who has many archery awards displayed in their family home.

“Then when I got to the age where I could pull a bow back, he taught me everything and showed me how to do it,” she said.

Justin equally shared her interest in archery. The siblings practiced together at home, shot together on the weekends at the United Sportsmen’s Club where the family still practices, and competed together.

“My dad would set a target about seven yards in our basement, and we would shoot them,” she said. “We would practice and practice; I’d even watch TV at the same time.”

Jordan began competing in local indoor tournaments at 8 years old, gaining experience and building on her skills. Then, she branched out into regional and statewide events through the Missouri Bowhunters Association, before taking on her first national tournament in Louisville, Kentucky a year later.

Sonia Dearman shows a photo of her oldest child Justin, left, and her daughter Jordan, right, holding crossbows at the ages of nine and seven.

A couple thousand people attend that tournament each year, getting to watch the professionals shoot first. In addition, a fun bonus shoot takes place allowing three amateurs and a professional to compete together. One year at that tournament, Jordan was excited to meet a professional archer she looks up to, world champion Levi Morgan.

“That was pretty awesome,” she said. “He had his own shoot in Pennsylvania, with more long range targets. It was really neat.”

Competing against about 100 shooters in her division at that national tournament, Jordan has taken home two third place finishes and a second place award from Louisville, Kentucky.

Striking the target

In the last few years, Jordan has stepped up her competition schedules, concentrating on participating in more national competitions both hosted by the Archery Shooters Association and the National Field Archery Association. The latter hosts indoor tournaments. They are often set up with occasional three-spot targets using 30 arrows total with 10 at a time and two minutes to shoot, or five-spot targets where archers shoot 12 rounds with five arrows each to shoot in four minutes like at the national tournament in Kentucky.

“The NFAA holds a couple of big tournaments a year – one in Las Vegas, which I went to in 2015, and a South Dakota shoot. For the nationals, we used to go every year. But I’ve been to those two shoots just once,” she said. “I got nervous even though I practiced. I was in (the teens) in my placement. There you are shooting next to someone who speaks a different language with people there from all different countries. It was crazy, but so fun. … I won the shoot in South Dakota (earning a sectional champion title); it was the best I had shot in awhile.”

In outdoor archery competitions, Jordan is still equally strong with a different target. She said instead of shooting a paper target inside, she is shooting a foam animal target outside in wooded area. Scoring rings help the shooters earn points, with hitting the body of the animal counting as five points and eight, 10 and 12 ring spots also located on the target.

“The 12 is usually in the bottom corner, but you can call the upper 12 and shoot that one,” she said, pointing to a picture at a national outdoors competition where she hit the 12 ring to secure a high-placing award.

Competing with five or six people in a group during the Archery Shooters Association and other outdoors tournaments, Jordan competed in the Women’s Known 40 class alongside adult women for the last few years. In that class the target is at a 40-yard maximum distance designated with a certain color stake and take two minutes to shoot the foam animal target. Beginning the 2018 Archery Shooters Association national 3D season in late February, she has moved into the Women’s Open B class, which is similar but includes a few more challenges.

Jordan Dearman displays just a handful of her awards won recently from national competitions.

The competitions are not all about archery. It is a time Jordan can see many of the friends she has made through the years participating in local, regional, state and national competitions. She has close friends from Sedalia and other states, such as Caylee Franklin from Kentucky. Their camaraderie and respect for each other as people and talented archers encourages them to push their abilities behind the bow.

Those good times also translate to the rewards they receive for placing high in each national tournament. Many sponsors contribute cash prizes to top finishers. Jordan received several monetary awards last year, including $1,000 for earning the 2017 Shooter of the Year champion in her class. This title is determined from calculating the points earned during the season and various criteria, which result in first, second and third placement for that award. She sometimes gets special prizes.

“At the ASA tournament in Texas, I won. It is the only shoot that the winner of the class gets a belt buckle,” she said. “It has a cowboy hat on it and is really detailed; I love it.”

Jordan often wears this badge of honor during competition, along with shirts and gear from the national sponsorship she secured with Mathews Archery, Inc. after turning 18 in November. She has upgraded six or seven times from her first compound freestyle bow, ready to kick off her national outdoors competitive season with a brand new one.

“I love my bow and everything about it. It shoots well and I’m just comfortable with it,” she said of a compound freestyle bow. “I haven’t tried other kinds before. I tried this, liked it and have simply stuck with it.”

There are so many other awards Jordan has won, sharing the same honors as her decorated archer brother. Justin now serves in the United States military, recently finishing a tour in Korea and was able to visit Sonia, Gil and Jordan earlier this year.

Jordan’s ambitions carry into all aspects of her life, with plans to study dental hygiene after graduating high school. But competitive archery is definitely on her horizon into adulthood, and Jordan encourages others to follow whatever their passion is. She has, and it has served her well.

“Keep trying and work hard, put in the practice and do it,” she said. “Have fun and do what you love. I work hard, but I have fun and love shooting.”

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R.A.D. equips women with tools and knowledge to combat rape aggression

Story by Sally Ince

We’ve all thought about it: What if I’m being followed? What if a stranger attacks me or what if someone I know attacks me? What do I do?

(Photo courtesy of Cole County Sheriff’s Office R.A.D.) Cole County Deputy Tiffany Thurman works with another instructor to demonstrate a move during a past R.A.D. session.

These are thoughts every woman has had to consider and at times these types of scenarios can leave us feeling scared, uncomfortable or could even prevent us from going out and trying new things alone. Fortunately, the Cole County Sheriff’s Department, the Jefferson City Police Department and the Lincoln University Police Department have been working hard in teaching women how to defend themselves.

The R.A.D. (Rape Aggression Defense) System is in its fifth year with the sheriff’s department and is designed to teach women how to become aware of situations and what to do if an assault occurs. The mission of the R.A.D. System is to establish an accessible, constantly improving and internationally respected alliance of dedicated instructors. In turn, these instructors provide educational opportunities for women to create a safer future for themselves. In doing this, the system will challenge society to evolve into an existence where violence is not an acceptable part of daily life.

“The ultimate goal is for each woman to go home to their families safely. Our program is not only uplifting and enlightening to each participant; it also validates the students inner strength and abilities, which I feel is empowering,” said Cole County Deputy Tiffany Thurman, who is also a R.A.D. instructor.

The program began with Lawrence N. Nadeau of Virginia after he served with the U.S. Marine Corps as a military police officer. After leaving the military, he began working in civilian law enforcement and partnered with his colleague, Sheri Iachetta, to combine combat training skills into realistic self-defense tactics for women.

The R.A.D. System has since become an internationally recognized alliance of self-defense educators. Nadeau is currently the director of instructional development and works with active instructors to ensure women who enter the program leave with the knowledge of how to defend against the most common strikes, use methods to disable a potential attacker and how to use lifestyle awareness and empowerment to prevent attacks from happening.

The R.A.D. program is only offered to women. Assaults from men onto women still make up the majority of sexual assaults in the United States today. In order to protect potential victims, instructors want to prevent potential assailants or rapists from learning defensive reactions.

(Photo courtesy of Cole County Sheriff’s Office R.A.D.) R.A.D. participants practice a move during a past R.A.D. session.

This program does not only help women trying to prevent assaults, but can also be as equally helpful to women with past or current abuse situations.

“I was looking up stats and found that 321,500 rape and sexual assaults happen per year in the U.S.,” Thurman said. “Even when you look at the stats I don’t believe that they are completely 100 percent accurate because a lot of women don’t come forward either out of fear, shame, guilt or retaliation. As a law enforcement officer, you see so many situations you just wonder if you can do something different then let’s do it. Why not offer a program that can prevent it all together possibly or at least give them more options.”

The R.A.D. program is also free of charge. The R.A.D. System shares the belief that self-defense for women should not only be practical, but affordable, and that every woman should have tools necessary to defend themselves against an attack.

R.A.D. also offers a lifetime practice policy. This means women can participate in any R.A.D. basic physical defense class in the United States and can come back to practice what they learned in previous classes at no cost to them.

The entirety of the program is 15 hours long and separated into four separate classes. Each class lasts about four hours with the exception of the final class, which lasts only three hours. The only thing required for the class is that you wear a pair of comfortable workout shoes and that you bring your own water or sports drink, as the classes are physically demanding.

Upcoming dates for R.A.D. classes will take place in March, May, July, September and October. Classes are from 6-10 p.m. Tuesdays and Thursdays at the Cole County Sheriff’s Office at 350 East High St. in Jefferson City, with the last class from 6-9 p.m. Applications are available at the Cole County Sheriff’s Office or at www.colecountysheriff.org. Anyone under the age of 18 will also need to fill out a parental consent form. For updates about R.A.D., visit the local program’s Facebook page.

(Photo courtesy of Cole County Sheriff’s Office R.A.D.) R.A.D. participants practice a move during a past R.A.D. session.

Want to participate in R.A.D.?

R.A.D. has five more sessions this year, including March 13, 15, 20 and 22. Here are the remaining sessions you can register for:

– May 15, 17, 22 and 24

– July 10, 12, 17 and 19

– Sept. 11, 13, 18 and 20

– Oct. 16, 18, 23 and 25

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A winning attitude

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Roberta Licklider continues to educate after
an award-winning coaching and teaching career at JCHS

Story by Samantha Pogue  •  Photos by Julie Smith

Dennis and Roberta Licklider’s office at their Holts Summit home is lined with mementos from their more than 30-year career coaching at Jefferson City High School.

Roberta Licklider stands alongside the
edge of Licklider Track, named after her
and her husband who helped lead the
Jefferson City Jays high school boys and
girls track team to multiple district and
state championship victories.

Dennis’ multiple football district and state title plaques hang next to accolades of the JCHS varsity volleyball team, in which Roberta coached. Serious action shots of their own children competing as athletes hang next to candid smiles of student athletes and fellow coaches. Scenes of head track coach Dennis and assistant girls track coach Roberta on the sidelines of the now JCHS track named after them hang next to a photo montage from the induction ceremony welcoming Dennis and Roberta into the Missouri Sports Hall of Fame in 2013, four years after they retired.
These keepsakes are just a few of their most prized possessions from successful, award-filled careers. However, one file folder holds items that also touch Roberta’s heart every time she opens it. That folder contains notes, letters and cards from former athletes and students, expressing how she made a difference in their lives.
“I remember getting one from a girl who is now a lawyer, and she was one of the first kids I coached in volleyball and track when I first started teaching. I opened it up and it said, ‘ … thank you so much for teaching me dedication and hard work, and I would have never been able to complete law school without the example you set,’” Roberta said. “Those are the things when I’m having a down day or not feeling good, I open that little folder and read some of those things. … It’s like the saying: ‘You never know the impact you have until later on, so you better make it a good one.’”
That positive impact continues for the Lickliders since retiring in 2009, often hearing from former students and athletes through social media and seeing them while traveling across the country. Roberta’s passion for education has not halted, having been involved with the homebound education program and currently substitute teaching for Jefferson City Public Schools.
The imprint the students and athletes have made on them is just as significant.
“It is a wonderful profession and a wonderful life. You will learn more from teaching and coaching the kids than you would from any book,” she said. “You truly get more than you give.”

Clearing hurdles

A Jefferson City native, Roberta graduated from Helias Catholic High School in 1972, the same year Title IX of the Education Amendment, an important federal law prohibiting discrimination on the basis of sex in any federally funded program or activity, was passed.
“Things were much more defined boy and girl when I started and finished high school,” she said. “Now they have everything and wonderful programs for boys and girls.”
Cheerleading was a sport Roberta could join, and she also got involved in other extracurricular activities such as being a junior auxiliary member at St. Mary’s Hospital and playing clarinet in the school band. She enjoyed her time in high school, and college was a great platform for her future in education and athletics. She joined the tennis team and graduated from then Central Missouri State University in 1976 with a bachelor’s degree in education and secondary physical education major, and minor in psychology.

Roberta Licklider at Licklider Track in Jefferson City High School’s Adkins Stadium.

“I wanted to major in physical education mostly from the beginning. I felt like girls got left behind activity wise. When I went to college and saw everything that was offered, I looked back on the physical education I had and I was behind the other kids. … Education was a great choice. The kids keep you young all the time and you work very hard,” she said. “That is what is interesting about my career in physical education, I graduated high school when Title IX was passed, went to college and got to see the implementation of all the sports that we had. It was very nice to see the growth of women’s sports in high school.”
That career as a physical education teacher began back home at Jefferson City High School the same year she graduated college. By that time a variety of different activities were offered, including badminton, softball, basketball, volleyball, running, weightlifting, and, one of Roberta’s favorites, dance.
“I had a book of 350 some folk dances, so if I would get bored teaching certain ones, I would pull others out, learn them and bring them to class,” she said, noting she primarily taught square and folk dance at first, adding modern and ballroom dancing to her curriculum after one of the longtime P.E. teachers who implemented many of the programs retired. “I was very lucky in my teaching career that I would do something for awhile and … change up, and do something for awhile and change up. I was always having to learn new things,” she said.
Some of her favorite moments from teaching were when the kids not only worked hard and got it, but when the students worked together to help each other learn.
“We had a young man who was blind, and he was in the same square during square dance every day with the same kid. I would dance him through the steps and his partner would come in and do it. The kids he was with would grab him if he was going the wrong direction,” she said. “He had great listening skills. It was wonderful to see seven kids who were not blind work with him and give him a degree of success that he would not have probably had on his own.”

Building a team

The positive impression Roberta has made on her students caught the eye of fellow staff and administration. They asked Roberta to coach track her first year of teaching, and after some persuading she became the assistant girls track coach her second year at Jefferson City High School. A few years later she became volleyball head coach, keeping that position for 12 years until she started having children – Ross, Ben and Maggie.
Her success in coaching came with delivering a winning attitude and training of her own. With her volleyball teams, she learned right along with the athletes.
“When I look back I did not know that much about volleyball. I had to learn and the athletes were just marvelous to me. I played tennis in college and I thought well it’s just a net sport. The net is just a little higher, but you want the ball to go over the net,” she said with laughter. “I went to clinics, read books, asked people and watched other teams. … The kids were very accepting and I found out you need to be honest and up front with kids, saying ‘I don’t know but I’ll find out.’ You never say, ‘Oh yes this is how you do it’ because it will come back to haunt you.”
As she worked hard to develop a fun, quality volleyball program, Roberta saw the perseverance the young ladies put forth. She recalled taking the team to the Meramec Tournament in St. Louis, and her best hitter, Karen Rapier, sprained her ankle at practice that Friday. The team battled their way through the first round of tournament play, but without Rapier they had receded to eighth out of 18 teams.
“But we were having fun. The girls got to the spend the night and go out to eat. Karen looked at me and said, ‘I can play tomorrow.’ I said, ‘Are you sure? We got the rest of the season ahead of us.’ She said, ‘I’ll be good,’” Roberta said. Sure enough, Rapier helped lead her team to a second place finish with Eldon High School’s volleyball team taking first that year.
“That was one of my favorite memories of volleyball. We weren’t expected to do anything and we placed second. That is not what you aim for, but it was pretty good for us,” she said. Her time coaching the volleyball team included many wonderful experiences, such as winning the district title the same year as the Meramec Tournament.
Roberta’s drive to encourage her athletes also translated to the Lady Jays track team. She credits her fellow coaching staff for helping her with warm-ups, workouts and training, a learning process she said didn’t quit until she retired.
Roberta started her track coaching career with girls who did sprints, hurdles and the long jump and triple jump. When Dennis came to Jefferson City High School during Roberta’s first year coaching track, he had already implemented some things with the male pole vaulters and hurdlers.

The love and mutual
respect that Roberta
and Dennis Licklider
have for one another
has benefited the
couple’s personal life
and coaching careers.

“When he became head coach in 1986, he implemented those same things to all the boys and the girls. He was very good about equality. The boys were going to lift, the girls were going to lift, too. The same with workouts. We had about 60-80 kids every year, so you really had to plan,” she said.
Once Dennis took lead with the Jays track team, Roberta also converted her assistant girls track coach position to oversee about 30 girls who competed in short sprints and relays, basically 400-meter and lower. A boys sprint coach also had the same amount.
“The girls have enjoyed it, because they were treated like athletes. They weren’t treated like girls doing a sport. They were athletes in their own right. That was nice to see,” she said.

Support on and off the track

Under Dennis’ leadership, Roberta and her fellow coaches saw some incredible accolades for the Jays and Lady Jays track athletes, as well as tools that improved their coaching abilities and athletes’ performance.
Roberta said one of the most impactful moments in her coaching career was attending the level 2 track school at University of Missouri in Columbia during the 1995-96 school year. During an eight-day period, the coaching staff clocked 75 hours learning biomechanics, physiology, training theory and psychological coaching. They took a test on what they learned, advancing to a clinic where they could apply those tactics to track and field.
In 1997, the coaching staff implemented their training, resulting in Roberta’s Lady Jays sprinters completing 20 400-meter runs two times a week. Even though the techniques were the same, the extra “recovery workouts” gave them a boost of confidence to push through their sprint races and finish strong.

(Courtesy of Chris Auckley) (Photo courtesy of Chris Auckley) That same bond was felt on the track during meets, as the couple discussed
strategy during a past track meet years ago.

Roberta said the team did OK that first year. Then, in 1998, the Lady Jays won the state title, as they did again in 1999.
“We had a down year, and then were back up on the podium in 2001 and 2002, winning state in 2003, second in 2004 and four consecutive state championships from 2005 to 2008,” she said. “My kids just embraced that whole new training regiment and they just took off. … It was amazing you could take the sciences and psychology, and put it into your training. And it worked.”
There are times that adjustments needed to be made while teaching or coaching, and Roberta recognized she learned all the time as an educator.
“If something doesn’t work and you are not where you think you should be or exceeding your expectations, you have to go back and rework it. My husband was great at that. He was the driving force behind all the championships and all the kids that have medals,” she said. “I would be remiss if I didn’t say how great my success was due to him being the head coach. … I know my kids were successful and I did a good job with them, but I know that somebody was standing behind me, supporting me.”
“He is also a wonderful man, a wonderful husband, a wonderful father and a wonderful provider. I don’t know why the Lord was looking over me and blessing me, but he did with Dennis.”
The couple met in the high school cafeteria, and dated for six years before getting married. Dennis’ daughter Erin and her half-sister Jill from Erin’s mother’s second marriage are as close to the Lickliders as the couple’s three children they have together. In fact, three of the kids were athletes and two served as managers on the track team under their parents. Ben took second in pole vault his junior year and Maggie held a record her freshman year at 10:15 in the 4×1800 relay. In addition, three of the five children have gone on to teach, with one also coaching track.
Dennis and Roberta supported each other on and off the field. Even though Roberta was another person on the coaching staff, she felt she had equal say and Dennis would listen and make the best, fair decision for the team as a whole. Roberta taught Dennis to remain calm in an angering moment and Roberta learned from Dennis to look for those teachable moments. Discipline was important but to do it in a way that allows that moment to take place with the most impact for the child.

(Photo courtesy of Chris Auckley) The Lady Jays track team holds up their 2007 state first place plaque, an honor the Lady Jays track team earned consecutively from 2005 to 2008.

“When we would get on the track workouts, they would run a time that was a personal best or run a relay time that was the best of the year; you could just see the happiness,” she said. “That is what I remember most from the seven state championships, all the smiles. They were so happy that they worked so hard and realized the dream.”

Continuing education

That dream earned the Lady Jays sprint team 93 individual and relay championships at the district and state levels, as well as seven state championships. Roberta’s athletes had 69 All-State (Top 8) performances, and areranked first in Missouri for numbers of athletes qualified for the state meet in all classes, most team titles, most consecutive team titles in Class 4 and most medals earned in all classes.
During the 24 years coaching boy’s and girl’s track and field teams at Jefferson City High School, Dennis saw his athletes post a dual meet record of 237-5 and win 106 major championships, as well as 40 district championships, nine state championships and 20 undefeated seasons.
That record of success allowed the JCHS track and field program to be inducted into the Missouri Sports Hall of Fame in 2012. Little did Dennis and Roberta know they, too, were going to be inducted the next year.
“As we were walking away they announced that Dennis and Roberta Licklider will be inducted into the Hall of Fame in spring 2013. I said, ‘What did they say?’” Roberta recalled, laughing. “I knew my husband deserved it, but I didn’t think I was deserving. But it was a tremendous honor, and I was taken aback. … The team one is the big one. For me, that is where I belong, with everybody else.”
Roberta has immersed herself back into education since retiring, teaching students in a different environment than during her career. For seven years, she assisted in the Boys and Girls Club of Jefferson City’s after-school program at Pioneer Trail, and taught dance at Westminster College in Fulton for a few years. She also was a tutor for a few years in the homebound teaching program, which matched educators with teens who recently had babies, something she first got involved with before retirement when one of her athletes became pregnant and needed to graduate.

Roberta Licklider assists Alex Krumm as he checks out a book at JCHS library. Since retirement Licklider continues to substitute teach wherever she is needed in the school district.

Substitute teaching is her main gig in retirement, allowing her to work in other aspects of the Jefferson City public school district she never got to experience before. She was able to use her master’s degree in guidance and counseling she earned in 1984 from the University of Missouri while subbing as a middle school guidance counselor, spot subbed and did long-term assignments at the alternative school, filled in as a behavioral specialist, taught at Nichols Career Center and worked in the high school library.
Roberta said she plans to substitute teach for another five and a half years, and her “fun money” from that job has previously helped send her daughter to Costa Rica to study, her family to Italy on vacation and Dennis and Roberta to Germany, Austria and Switzerland just recently.
“Right now, I’m saving for house renovations and Greece. That has been on my bucket list since the fourth grade: going to Greece,” she said with a smile. “We also have 10 acres here, so I garden and can. … When people ask me how it is to be retired, I said the power of no is intoxicating.”
Part of the home renovations is to refurbish the couple’s office in the next few years, with many of those awards set for storage, donation or recycling. But the connections they had with the students will never be forgotten.
“When you see their accomplishments, maybe just a small part of what you did maybe helped. You are just so proud of them. … When you discipline them, kids know that you really care about them. All those letters that I have, I never had one from a kid that says, ‘Thanks for letting me slide,’” she said. “It was always ‘I couldn’t see it at the time, but now that I’m older I know what you were doing and I understand. Thank you.’ … We have worked very hard, but we have been very blessed. I try to tell people that all the time, and I thank God for what we have.”

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Parakeets with a purpose

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Lisa Silvey’s classroom pets engage
her kindergartners in education

Story by Samantha Pogue • Photos by Julie Smith

As the more than 25 children in longtime kindergarten teacher Lisa Silvey’s class sang “1, 2, 3, Jesus Loves Me,” faint whistles matched the unified melody.

It wasn’t accompanying music or from their teacher. It was from a young male parakeet that resides in their classroom throughout the school year.

Named for the famed astronaut and his “moon dust” hued exterior, Neil Luna is a new addition to Silvey’s class at St. Martins School. However, he joins a mainstay older female parakeet, Kindergarten Kiwi, as part of the classroom pet program Silvey has included in her curriculum for many years.

Lisa Silvey’s kindergarten class sing a song to their classroom parakeets.

“Through the years, I have had various other pets in the class. I have had a rabbit, mouse, goldfish, Beta fish and a hamster,” she said. “However, I have found parakeets to be the most user-friendly and can help the most with cross-curriculum lessons.”

For 12 years, Silvey has had parakeets in her classroom. In teaching science, Silvey haslearned quite a bit about the birds, in whichshe helps relay to her students during her lessons. For example, she used to have only one parakeet, but then learned it was better to have them in pairs if you can.

“From what I have researched, they seem to be social birds,” she said. “They are OK as a pet singularly, but they thrive better if they have a partner. This is what led to our breeding program last school year.”

Lisa Silvey, a kindergarten teacher at St. Martin Catholic School, keeps two birds parakeets in her room. They are are named Kindergarten Kiwi and Neil Luna.

St. Martins School Principal Eddie Mulholland had assisted with an animal breeding program when teaching at another school. “He said, ‘What do you think about that?’ and I said, ‘That would be great,’ not knowing how successful it would really be,” Silvey said.

Kiwi and her male partner had multiple babies, with Kiwi hatching at least 12 eggs and numerous others during the last year. Silver said many families in the community voluntarily opened up their homes to become foster parents to the parakeets, with Silvey also taking one of Kiwi’s daughters home to join her own flock of pets.

“This year, we have a younger friend, Neil Luna, for her because her other friend was very old. This year we had another lesson, when animals and loved ones pass away,” she said. “We had that lesson and now we have a new friend to enjoy and learn from.”

A student in Lisa Silvey’s class feeds the two parakeets.

Neil Luna and Kindergarten Kiwi are classroom pets, but these parakeets are more than just entertaining mainstays to the kids who see them five days a week. They are educational tools, they are co-teachers, and they are friends. Silvey said last year they used the parakeets for math lessons during the breeding program, and they also learn about parakeets and bird biology.

“They are also learning with the parakeets. When we do group reading and they hear that unison reading, they will chime in. I’ll say, ‘Listen, they are reading with us.’ We also talk about what would it be like if a bird could read,” she said. “We bring them into our journal writing, as well. I’ll ask, ‘What would it be like for a bird to have a holiday?’ You let the kids develop their critical thinking skills and think outside the box. You can use them for everything and it keeps the students engaged in learning.”

Lisa Silvey asks her students questions about classroom pets Kindergarten Kiwi and Neil Luna.

There are times when the birds go to a special corner when Silvey needs the children to fully focus on a task or lesson. However, for the most part they are up front and center of the classroom, constantly interacting with the children and ever present to remind the students in how to care for their classroom pets.

They help feed and water Neil Luna and Kindergarten Kiwi, as well as help Silvey make sure their “home” is clean. They also make sure they have toys, play, sing and have fun. Both parakeets enjoy the disco ball that hangs in their cage, and Kiwi enjoys perching herself in front of the mirror, admiring her brightly colored green and yellow feathers. Kinley Radioman paid homage to her classroom pets during a coloring project, including their toys, disco ball and Kiwi’s favorite accessory.

“These are all her toys and the mirror she likes to look into. They love to play with their toys,” she said in describing her picture in front of the class.

Lisa Silvey’s students love having their classroom pets in class and learn a lot from them.

The kids also shared information about other birds they have learned about, ones that lay eggs and others that don’t, how they look when they are young versus growing up and the proper way to care for their bird friends.

Most of the kids just love having them in the class, and think they “are cool” and “are very pretty,” like Dylan Lage said. Students’ families even volunteer to take care of them during the summer months before Silvey introduces them to a new group of kindergartners the next school year.

“When we were planting marigolds in these little cups, those were not just their marigolds.They were ours, including our parakeets,” Silvey said. “They really feel like they are theirs, which makes learning that much more fun for them.”

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Cats, coffee, companionship

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Papa’s Cat Café in Columbia set to open in June

Story by Sally Ince

Cat cafés have been on the rise in the United States for the past few years, but one has still yet to be established in Mid-Missouri. That is until now.

(Courtesy of Ryan Kennedy) Ryan and his wife, MacKenzie, smile with their cat, Hardy, during an information video about the cafe.

When Ryan Kennedy and his family visited a cat café in Seoul, South Korea, for the first time in 2016, Ryan decided Columbia could be the perfect place for this kind of business.

Papa’s Cat Café will not only offer an alternative atmosphere for coffee drinkers, but will also provide benefits to both cats and customers. Ryan will work together with the Boone County Animal Care Shelter with the mission to foster adoptable cats until they can find their forever home.

The play room at the café will also give those looking to adopt a better chance to learn the personalities of the cats within a home-like environment. Ryan also believes the café will be a great way for students and those living in apartments that don’t allow animals to be able to get their animal fix.

Despite being first time business owners, Ryan and his wife have been able to take fast steps toward opening the business this June. So far they have already received their food managers certification, their animal boarding license from the Department of Agriculture and have received approval from the Medical & Veterinary Board of Missouri. They have now been in the construction stages where the café will be at 14 S. Second St. near Lucky’s Market in Columbia and hope to soon begin the decorating process.

(Courtesy of Ryan Kennedy) Hardy sits next to a type writer that will go in the cafe. It reminds him if Ernest Hemingway who also loved cats.

The appearance of the café will be themed after Ryan’s favorite author, Ernest Hemingway, who also held a love for cats and whose nickname was “Papa.” It will feature a combination of props related to Hemingway’s books, as well as some of the items you can see at Hemingway’s home in Key West, Florida. All props have also been pre-cat approved by the Kennedy’s cat, Hardy.

Having grown up owning multiple cats throughout his childhood, Ryan has always been an avid cat lover. He was raised 20 minutes outside of Columbia and earned his teaching degree at the University of Missouri. He then taught high school English for 12 years until he decided he wanted to pursue something new.

“I’d been trying to figure out what I wanted to do since I decided I wanted to leave teaching and I was trying to find something that would make me happier or keep me interested, and I love cats and I’m also kind of a secret baker,” Ryan said. “It wasn’t something a lot of people knew about me, but I love to cook and I love to bake, so I kind of saw this opportunity to combine a couple of passions.”

(Courtesy of Ryan Kennedy) Ryan’s daughter plays with Hardy, the families house cat, while surrounded by decor that will be used inside the cafe.

Thankfully, Ryan’s passions seemed to have led him in the right direction. Having put on a KickStarter fundraiser, Papa’s Cat Café has already seen great support within the community. The fundraiser showed 250 backers donated more than $15,000 toward the café with an average donation of $65. Papa’s Cat Café also currently has 2,300 followers on their Facebook page and 400 Instagram followers, and Ryan has received several calls from Mid-Missourians to ask if the café has opened yet.

Until then, Ryan has enjoyed building props, learning all the small things it takes to run a business, and perfecting his pastry recipes to live out his dream.

“One of the things I want to come out of this café is to tell people that it’s never too late to chase a dream, and I hope that people will help to make this dream a successful one,” Ryan said.

For more information and updates on their opening, visit papascatcafe.com or Facebook.com/papascatcafe.

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Not your average pets

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Exotic critters make unique companions

Story and photos by Josie Musico

 Tom McDowell loves his snakes.

The former Paradise Pets owner and his wife, Racheal, still keep about 20 of the slithery reptiles, plus a handful of other exotic critters.

“We care for all of them just like they were our only one,” the Fulton resident said with a hint of pride.

McDowell first developed an interest in serpents about 25 years ago. Living in Florida at the time, he found a corn snake behind some bushes at his church. Now, his collection has grown to include a yellow anaconda, Brazilian rainbow boa, ball python, bearded dragon, pixie frog and leopard gecko.

“They’re definitely our babies,” he said modestly. “We take care of them very well.”

McDowell also wants to break any misconceptions folks have about snakes. Most species are harmless, but even their venomous counterparts play a role in the ecosystem. The exotic pet owner loves breaking the ideas that snakes are slimy and all are dangerous or aggressive.

“Most of the stereotypes that you hear about reptiles are not true,” he said.

Adopting an exotic pet often requires more legal hassle than a dog or cat. Depending on the type of pet, you’ll need a certain type of special permit. The U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service requires you to follow various laws such as the Lacey Act and Endangered Species Act. For example, you won’t necessarily be allowed to keep a pet bald eagle.

And federal law is only part of a wide-ranging net of guidelines. You might compare the set of laws to layers of an onion. Federal, state, city and county all apply, and you must adhere to whichever is strictest.

Local government agencies can create ordinances that are more – but not less – restrictive than state and federal law. For example, if Holts Summit City Council or Cole County Commissioners wanted to pass a law allowing their residents to skip the exotic species permitting process and purchase cobras without paperwork, they would be out of luck. Establishing an outright ban on those species within city or county limits, on the other hand, could be easier.

Owning non-venomous reptile species such as McDowell’s boas is legal in Missouri. Even keeping a native species can mean extra work if it’s a nontraditional pet. Tyler Brown, a Camden County based game warden, described how to obtain a confined wildlife permit.

“It’s a pretty extensive process,” he said. “You don’t just get one by submitting an application.”

A class 1 permit covers ownership of wild but non-dangerous native species such as deer and pheasants.

A class 2 permit is required to keep more aggressive critters such as rattlesnakes and mountain lions. Both require the owner to prove the animals came from a legal source, and meet confinement standards.

“There’s a whole number of regulations that pertain to getting one of those permits,” Brown said. “It’s a very detailed and well-defined process.”

But why go through that trouble? Most exotic pet owners keep those critters for the same reasons others keep cats and dogs: they’re lovable, fun and great companions.

Ashley Detwiler, another local pet owner, treats her parrot like a family member. Bernie, a 22-year-old Congo African grey, originally came from an abusive home and still has a hesitancy to warm up to people.

“They get stressed out very easily,” she said. “Because Bernie is standoffish, he tends to bite every chance he gets.”

Bernie’s favorite foods are chicken, berries, watermelon and papaya. He can blow kisses, whistle and make various other noises. Like other birds, Bernie has sensitive lungs. That means keeping the thermostat at a constant 60 to 80 degrees Fahrenheit, and avoiding smoking, candles and incense in the home.

“There’s a lot that goes into having a bird,” Detwiler said. “It’s a lifetime commitment.”

And like any exotic pet, it helps to remember the animal’s wild background. Even the most careful owner can still be attacked. After it strikes, keep in mind your local hospital might not have exotic species antivenin on hand, so curing the bite wound could be time-consuming and costly.

McDowell is quick to remind other wild animal lovers they won’t become domesticated overnight.

“You can never assume that just because you’re handling them they’re gonna be like a house cat,” he said. “They’re always gonna be a wild animal.”

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HER Health: Truly becoming your pet’s best friend

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By Dr. Mar Doering, All Paws Medical & Behavioral Center

I have lived my life surrounded by pets and it has changed me for the better. I have been a veterinarian for 39 years now, but I decided to pursue a career in veterinary medicine when I was only 4 years old.

As a veterinarian I have studied every aspect of animals and animal care, pouring over books and attending hours of seminars dealing with every animal related subject imaginable. Of course, all things medical and surgical played the biggest role in my veterinary education as you would expect. Long ago I realized that caring for a pet’s behavioral needs is just as important as caring for their medical and surgical needs.

As I began working in my own veterinary practice, I saw how interrelated a pet’s behavioral and emotional state is to its health and well being. I saw how difficult it was for an anxious pet to accept veterinary care and how their anxieties made it difficult for them to recover from their illnesses. More than that, these anxious and/or excitable pets weren’t fitting into their homes. Too often these pets were sent to shelters or worse, their anxieties and excitement led to biting and their owners had to consider euthanasia.

I made it my mission in life to help these pets and the families who love them by teaching people how to communicate with their pets and how to recognize when they are in need of behavioral help. As I learned how to care for and teach pets in a calm and positive way, I learned that I had to become a calmer and more confident person myself in order to truly help the most troubled ones. This is the gift that a lifetime of living with and working with pets has given me and one of the greatest joys that comes from building the human animal bond. If we do it right, animals can make us all better, and, while you’re helping your pet, they’re helping you back.

Lessons pets have taught me:

1. Most important of all is to always watch your pets for their input and reactions. Your pets will be your best teachers and they will always tell you the truth. If you have a calm and balanced, happy-go-lucky animal family, then you’re doing well. If issues exist, than consider that you and your animal family may need some help.

To me, this is one of the best rewards that comes from working with pets; you never have to wonder how you’re doing, the animal’s actions will always tell you. I have studied animal behavior since before I went to veterinary college, but every important thing I know comes from watching and loving my own dogs and cats over all these years.

2. Dogs and cats are affected directly by human emotions.  If you’re feeling worried, frustrated or impatient, your pet will be affected by these emotions, too. Certain pets are caretakers. They will come to your side and try to help you. Others, those with anxieties or other issues, will take on your emotions in a negative way. Your feelings of worry, frustration, impatience, etc. add to their feelings of vulnerability, and things can quickly go from bad to worse. If you can turn these emotions around and calm yourself, you will bring calm to your pet, as well. If you are too upset to do that, don’t touch your pet or work with them until you can calm yourself down.

3. I will now give you my philosophy of pet training in a nutshell, and it was my own dogs and cats who taught this to me. Reward your pet the moment that you see them doing the very thing you want them to repeat, and ignore (my favorite), redirect or correct immediately when you see them doing the thing you never want to see repeated.

Your timing needs to be spot on. Pets live in the moment. If you wait even a second or two too late, you will confuse your pet completely. Or, if you reward with a touch for the wrong thing (your dog jumping up in greeting for example), your pet will get the wrong message.

4. Pet lovers have great hearts. They always try to do their best for their pets.  The problems arise from an uncertainty or a confusion about how to help. Too often pets are treated like babies or small children instead of who they really are. I’ll give an example of how this small misunderstanding can cause a bigger issue for your pet. When comforting a child who has just had a little scare, a parent will stroke them and often speak in a tiny, soothing voice. The same is often done for a fearful pet with mixed results. To a pet, the stroking is seen as a reward for what they are doing in that moment, which means, in your pet’s mind, that you are praising them for being scared and want them to continue to be scared. Because you’re speaking in a tiny voice, they’ll believe that you, too, are scared and that you are in need of their protection. Thus, a miscommunication is born.

Instead, be very calm yourself. Take some deep breaths as a “calming signal.” Wait until your dog calms down even for a moment and then reward with praise and stroking. You have just communicated to your pet that you are proud for their strength and courage. Good job!

How can you make a difference for the sake of your pets?

1. For both your dogs and cats: Learn to communicate with your pets in their language. Pets communicate with their bodies; the position of their mouth, their ears, their tail, their torso and even their hair. You can study books about this as I did or, more practically and importantly, you can study your own pets. How do they act when excited or anxious? Who and what relaxes them? If it’s you, then pat yourself on the back.

Reward calm behaviors and your pet will aspire to be calm. Reward demanding behaviors (stroking when your dog jumps up on you) and you’ll get more demands.

Whether or not a pet will take a treat can be a barometer for calmness. A pet’s sense of smell and taste diminishes when fearful. If too fearful to take a treat, it’s too fearful to go forward with training or greetings. Teach your pet obedience commands and “tricks,” but don’t confuse these with a cure for behavioral issues such as anxieties and phobias. These issues require specialized help.

Don’t be afraid to seek help when needed, and the sooner you seek help for your pet the better.

2. For your dog: Learn what it means to be a pack leader/protector to a dog; this is the calmest, bravest, most confident and balanced individual in the dog’s social pack.  This is a leader who the pack will want to follow and the protector of every one of its members. The pack leader sets clear, consistent rules and serves as a role model for the pack. The leader/protector is who you should strive to be within your own pack.

Do a calming walk with your dog every day. I believe more can be accomplished by a calming walk with your best friend than with anything else you can do together. Walking my dog family each morning is the joy of my life. It is the time when we bond the most. However, do it right. You don’t want your dog to lead and pull you. Think of your leash as an antenna transmitting messages to your pet. Hold the leash short, but loose, with your arm relaxed and down at your side. If you need to transmit a message to your pet, lightly lift your arm upward so your pet instantly feels the slight and subtle movements you make. Never force or pull your pet. You want your best friend to look to you for direction and leadership. If you’re having trouble walking your pet, get help early. This is an important one to get right.

3. For your cat: Teach your cat the joys and benefits of climbing to a vertical space for fun and also when they’re frightened. Use positive associations (treats, toys, pats, praise) to help. A cat that is looking down from a high space generally feels more comfortable and confident than a cat who is running away and hiding under furniture.

Any changes in a cat’s behavior is something that should never be ignored. Cats often try to hide their illnesses from us. Call your veterinarian if you see any changes, even little ones. By the time cats stop eating or their symptoms worsen, it could be too late.

I leave you with the two most important pieces of advice I can give you as you begin on this wonderful journey of understanding and learning with your own pets. First, you should keep in mind that everything you do, say and feel counts when working with pets. So this is your opportunity to be your pet’s role model. Second, remember to have fun and enjoy every moment you have with your sweet and furry best friends. Life is always better when you share it with pets.

As I write this column I am sitting here with my eight dogs and seven cats around me and my husband, Dave, in the next room. They are my inspiration and my joy. Everything I know about dog and cat behavior comes from the pets who surround me, the pets I have loved who have preceded them, and the special patients who have helped me throughout the years. Dave helps by believing in me.

When I was young I dreamed of becoming a veterinarian, but the gifts that have come from truly connecting with and understanding pets have been far greater than anything I could have imagined. Spending my life working with dogs and cats has been a great privilege and a blessing.

Dr. Mar Doering has spent the last 30-plus years working to establish a unique center where a patient’s care and comfort comes first. Doering entered private practice in the central Missouri area and founded the Animal Clinic of South Callaway, PC in 1980. In 2010, Doering rededicated her clinic as “All Paws Medical and Behavioral Center” in order to give appropriate emphasis on her increased interest in treating animals with behavioral issues.

She was chosen to be a training consultant for the Jefferson City Correctional Center “Puppies 4 Parole” (P4P) program instituted by the Missouri Department of Corrections as a volunteer. For more than four years, she worked with offender-dog handlers to train unadoptable dogs into AKC tested Canine Good Citizens and wrote much of the P4P training manual for the state. Doering also works with the Jefferson City Animal Shelter to assist dogs suffering from anxieties and teaches puppy kindergarten classes for the Friends of the JCAS. In 2012 Dr. Doering was chosen by the Missouri Veterinary Medical Foundation to be inducted into the Veterinary Honor Roll if Missouri.

For more information, visit AskDrDoering.com.

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Mastering the Mystery

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3 sisters ask you to ‘Break the Code’

Story and photos by Samantha Pogue

It’s a door. From the outside, it causes anticipation, excitement, and nervousness. Once opened, a completely different realm awaits, as well as a flood of new emotions.

Perhaps it is a medieval laboratory, riddled with peculiar contraptions, bubbling potions and mysterious ingredients only an alchemist might conjure into use. Maybe it is a cozy 1940s-style room that disguises an intriguing secret behind its ladies’ hats, books and rotary phones.

Now that door has closed, with those inside trapped in these peculiar alternate realities. A few clues are given or even a helpful hint, but logic, problem solving and teamwork are the only ways to leave before time runs out.

In three months time, more than 250 guests have entered those doors and were able to escape within an hour, some in record time. Others were not able to break the code. Either way, residents and visitors to Jefferson City are making the state capital’s first escape room attraction, Break the Code Adventures, an increasingly popular activity fit for the whole family. The three sisters who own, operate and run each escape room game – Judy Cassmeyer, Joanne Thessen and Joyce Luebbering – are having as much fun as those solving their original mysteries.

GETTING A ‘CLUE’

Creativity was commonplace for Judy, Joanne, Joyce and their siblings while growing up in Taos.

“We have always done things with our imagination. We made houses, went on treasure hunts, made our own musical instruments out of cardboard,” said Judy, the oldest sister.

“And we were always playing board games,” Joyce added. Uno, card games and puzzles were and still are commonplace during family gatherings, and one of their favorites is Clue.

It only seemed fitting when the sisters went on their annual girls getaway with other female relatives last August to Hannibal they jumped at the chance to try their first escape room: a Clue board game inspired adventure at Mississippi Mind Trap.

“We set a record time of getting out, with about 17 minutes left. It was so much fun,” Joyce said.

In fact, they booked the attraction’s other room, Area 51, the next day. Feeling pretty confident going in, the group of about 12 relatives faced more challenges in their second attempt. However, they managed to escape with two minutes left.

“I think we scared the girl when we flew of out of the room and down the hallway,” Judy said with laughter. “You have your excited escapers and your calm ones; we are definitely excited ones.”

That enthusiasm prompted them to bring that same entertaining experience to others back in their native Jefferson City area. Forming their LLC in September, the sisters worked hard to formulate original escape rooms, gather the appropriate décor and important pieces used in each storyline, and the right location at 1515 High St. for their attraction. All the ideas they found and created are kept in Google Docs, with the sisters voting on their favorites they used when they opened Dec. 2.

“It is like telling a story and figuring out how the story works into an adventure,” Joyce said. “We had three rooms and now we have two because we needed the space for the game master. We found sitting behind a tall desk didn’t quite keep people from trying to talk to you or talk over you while someone is in the escape. You also don’t want them hearing what is happening in the rooms that could ruin their experience.”

Before the sisters became the game masters, they turned to the “garage sale” master, Judy’s husband, for getting many of the props they wanted to use. Finding the items and parts that make the most out of their escape room theme is one of their favorite parts of the business. They don’t want too much they need to reset for the next group, but enough “red herrings” and hands-on items to make the escape challenging and enjoyable.

“We have gotten some great compliments from people who have done our rooms on music choices, backgrounds and the overall experience,” Judy said. “That is always good to hear.”

BREAKING THE CODE

Judy, Joanne and Joyce have seen a steady stream of visitors to Break the Code Adventures. Before they open the door to each group’s experience, they ask guests to reserve which room they want to try.

The Alchemist adventure traps its guests in a laboratory of an alchemist who died. He had left clues in his lab to create a special potion that the king wants and could possibly ensure their release. Next door, The Secret Room begins with its guests knowing a secret took place and must figure out what it is and what to do about it in order to escape.

Guests from as few as two people up to larger groups of 10-plus try their problem-solving skills in each of the Break the Code rooms. Before starting their experience, they watch a safety video and often laugh when it gets to the part about not needing extra strength or climbing on things to get anything.

“We have a graphic of a guy hanging off the top of a bookshelf and everybody laughs at that. They always name someone in their group, saying, ‘There you are. That’s you.’ So we know who to watch,” Judy said with a laugh.

Their adventurers also bring lots of questions, as many have never experienced an escape room before. “Is something going to jump out at me” is a common question asked among pre-teens or if they can bring their phones into the escape room (the latter answered with yes as long as they do not take photos).

For Judy, Joyce and Joanne, interacting with the guests before and after is a delight, but serving as the game master while they are in room is just as much fun and equally enlightening.

“We also get ideas from people who play the game because somebody will come up with a way that they think they are supposed to solve something that I hadn’t thought of or we hadn’t talked about and I will write that down. That is a great idea for a future game,” Judy said, noting they also give three clues or hints while they are in the room. “I tell my groups if you don’t want any hints tell me now.”

The sisters also enjoy watching the dynamics of the groups change, seeing who takes a leadership role while in the room, as well as funny moments in thinking the first clue is going to “break the code” and open the door.

“You have been in there 30 seconds,” Joyce said with laughter. “Seriously, we do adjustments as we go. If we find something that is overly difficult that every group is stumbling on, then we tweak that.”

With Judy’s work as a special education teacher in Taos and Joyce being the bureau chief for the Missouri Department of Health and Senior Services’ Bureau of Vital Records, the pair often serves as the main game masters, cataloging these adventures every week. Joanne, a middle school library associate in Indianola, Iowa, does oversee games when she visits but also does bookkeeping and handles its social media and online presence. On Facebook, viewers can see who escaped and what time, as well as those who were “close” to mastering their adventure at Break the Code. The ladies keep track of their leader boards, the rate of escape, hints and other important information through a special computer program.

“The fastest times for both The Secret Room and The Alchemist are about 45 minutes, and we are running at about a 50 percent escape rate on both rooms,” Joanne said.

MORE WAYS TO ESCAPE

 Judy, Joanne and Joyce are continuing the positive momentum and healthy competition among stranger escapers with plans to expand in the near future. By the end of the summer, the sisters will have acquired the building’s basement, allowing them to look at added amenities.

“The hope is to have a large double-room escape adventure, another individual escape room, a children’s themed escape room (for children ages five to 10) and an area to bring in a conference or party, as well as a possible viewing room,” Judy said.

“We want to provide more opportunities for people to come back. It is nice to come and do two rooms, but then you have to wait six months (average time they will switch out themes) to do something different. That way we have different options during that same time frame,” Joyce added.

Birthday parties, small business groups and organizations, and even a proposal have taken place at Break the Code Adventures. With offsite escape room possibilities also on their radar, Judy, Joanne and Joyce are eager to share their mystery mastery with others. Right now, they are learning, laughing and loving this successful game right along with the community.

“Sometimes having this many minds is difficult,” Judy said with a laugh, “but we need all of our minds to cover all the bases we have to cover. … You get lots of perspective, which is good. And we all have so much fun doing it.”

DO YOU WANT TO ‘BREAK THE CODE?’

Location: 1515 E. High Street – North Suite

Booking Times:

• Sunday – 1-3:15 p.m.

• Monday and Tuesday: Closed

• Wednesday: 6-7:30 p.m.

• Thursday: Closed

• Friday: 6-8:15 p.m.

• Saturday: 1-8:30 p.m.

Bookings are by appointment only; walk-ins not typically available.

Cost: $20 per person

Contact: 573-635-9675, breakthecodeadventures@gmail.com, BreakTheCodeAdventures.com or find them on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

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Making real love connections

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JC Animal Shelter volunteers help animals
find their forever homes

Story by Samantha Pogue • Photos by Julie Smith

It was hard to peel 8-year-olds Raylee and Paelynn Stark, and their 4-year-old brother Graham, away from a playful young pup named Ivy. They relished in a game of fetch, running and receiving hugs and kisses from the sweet canine on an April afternoon in the fenced-in yard behind the Jefferson City Animal Shelter.

As the children bonded with Ivy, their mother, Dodi, watched in delight and chatted with shelter volunteer Joe Jerek about the dog and adopting animals from the city-ran facility. As a registered volunteer, Jerek  does whatever needs to be done at the shelter, but one of his favorite things is connecting animals to new owners, finding them a forever home.

“They live in the present, so they don’t have a concept of ‘I’ll go home tomorrow or what happened yesterday?’ For you to spend that time with them means the world to these animals. I’m going to go to sleep tonight knowing my precious little Ivy girl just had a great day,” Jerek said, finding out Ivy was adopted later that afternoon. “When you make that love connection between an animal and person, it is the best feeling in the world. You see that love.”

There have been close to 1,000 people that have taken the volunteer orientation class since the new shelter building opened about six years ago, but less than 50 regularly volunteer at the shelter like Jerek. Karen Jennings, shelter/animal control supervisor for about 14 years, said many individuals want to come in and love on the pets, but registered volunteers first apply, go through orientation, serve at least 10 hours and then are able to do additional tasks such as take the dogs on walks.

“If anyone wants to come in and simply socialize with the animals, they are welcome to come in between noon-4:30 p.m. Monday through Saturday. Otherwise if they want to walk the dogs on the Greenway Trail or things like that, they must be a registered volunteer,” she said. “The more I see them and interact with them and see how much they want to volunteer, I will ask them to do more things like bathing the dogs, sitting with the scared dogs, etc. … You need to be trustworthy with our animals and mainly have a great heart for what we do.”

That compassion is what drives the volunteers to do any job during their service time whether it is cleaning the dogs’ kennels, feeding, bathing, doing laundry, taking them out for walks, run or play time, or socialization for adoption. The staff sees the value in what each volunteer contributes to the shelter and, more importantly, the life of each animal.

“They really become our eyes and ears to those animals. We can see them in a kennel, but until you get them on a walk, you don’t know if they are limping or have loose stool. We know more about them with the help of our volunteers,” Jennings said.

Having several dogs throughout her life, Donna Ponder acquired her most recent pets, Casper and Gracie, through the shelter. When she retired after 23 years at the Missouri Department of Transportation, she knew she wanted to give back to the shelter by volunteering. For the last three years, she serves at the shelter about three to four times a week.

“If I miss a day, I miss the dogs. I think about the dogs so much. How they need us. I don’t get real upset if they have been here a longer time because I feel the right person hasn’t come or they haven’t met them yet. I talk to the dogs and tell them that,” she said with a smile.

Many volunteers first got their start at the shelter by serving alongside their children. After the kids grew up and moved out, the parents got hooked and now are avid volunteers like Nancy Akerley and Sabine Shamet, both who come to the shelter for a few hours about five times a week.

Exercising the dogs is one of their favorite activities. Shamet, a 10-year shelter volunteer originally from Germany, loves filling her day with fitness before working with troubled teenagers in the evening.

Part of that regiment is running and even taking bike rides with dogs along the Greenway Trail.

“Exercise is good for dogs and people. They are more adoptable because they are less hyper. … If they are super shy, I sit there and let them sniff me first. If they are super hyper, we go for an extra run,” she said.

Like Shamet, Akerley teaches the dogs patience and basic manners and commands while out walking them.

“Some dogs never had leash experience before so we have to teach them how to walk on a leash,” she said. “Some dogs you have to sit with for awhile before you get them to go out with you. But when you get them to, it is very rewarding.”

Kim Marquis enjoys the experiences of volunteering at the shelter on Tuesdays, but she served the facility in a different volunteering capacity for five years previously. As the foster care coordinator, Marquis was the main point of contact for about 25 to 30 foster families who raised kittens and puppies for about four to five weeks or until they reached 2 pounds.

“I learned a lot about medical stuff, how to care for them, what to do if we had a new (cat) mom that wasn’t being a good mom, etc. It was 24-7, 365 days a year,” she said. Shamet, Akerley and Ponder all have been foster parents to puppies and kittens, with the latter hitting a high need for foster families during July and August. Marquis said about 25 to 30 shelter volunteer families have fostered 1,300-1,500 kittens and puppies during a five-year span, averaging about 250-300 of those animals a year.

“You have to love that animal like it is yours. It is difficult bringing them back in to be adopted out, but you also know when you see ‘fostered’ on a tag, it was in a good home, probably with other animals and kids, is potty trained,” she said.

“These foster families give so much of themselves and their daily lives. … When you get 3-day-old puppies or kittens in and get to bottle feed them and care for them, you hold onto them in your heart forever.”

For Judy Volmert and her daughter Megan volunteering at the shelter has become a daily part of their routine. Coming six times a week after Megan gets out of school and even more during the summer, the pair loves taking care of all the animals, especially the dogs that might get looked over.

“Megan wanted to connect with pit bulls. We had never had that experience before. I was leery, but it was the first dog she would pick out to walk. A lot of people would skip over them when adopting,” Volmert said. “That is one dog in here that I have learned to really love. They are the sweetest most loving dogs.”

Akerley agrees that some dogs and cats may be misunderstood upon first impression. She often writes something up to put on their cage, encouraging people to give them a chance.

“The older dogs and some of the very energetic younger dogs have a hard time. Some people have a tunnel vision about what they are looking for, and really it is the temperament of the dog that is most important over the appearance,” she said. “Instead of just taking a dog that looks cute, I would love for them to spend some time with it. Adopt them if they are really compatible with you.”

As all the volunteers stress, it is not important if they spend six days a week or one day a month. It all counts in the betterment of the animal’s life.

“When you come in and volunteer, you are saving lives. When Donna and Sabine walk or run the dogs, it keeps up the dogs’ mental stability. The foster families that take in these animals, not only are they saving the life of the animal they took in but they are making room for another animal here,” Marquis said. “It all literally saves lives.”

For more information about volunteering, donating items or adopting from the Jefferson City Animal Shelter, call 573-634-6429 or visit JeffersonCityMo.Gov/Government/Animal_Control/shelter-Information.php or on Facebook. Help the shelter through fundraising and other community efforts by visiting the Friends of the Jefferson City Animal Shelter website at FriendsofJCAS.org.

Meet 7 dedicated shelter volunteers

Nancy Akerley

Why she likes the shelter: “It is a need in the community first. It is also nice that they are so welcoming to people that just want to come in and visit with the animals.”

Joe Jerek

Why he loves volunteering: “Some of the best days I have at the shelter are the worst days I’m having in life. If work is stressful or you are having a bad day, you come down here and you cannot help but just be reinvigorated. It is pure love. … It is great therapy for everybody.”

Kim Marquis

Why volunteer? “People think they would come in, love them all and never be able to give them up. If you don’t give them back, you can’t continue. If you don’t fall in love, you are not good at it. Come in and volunteer, and you do get to play with puppies and kittens.”

Donna Ponder 

What the animals need most: “The main thing they need is just lots and lots of love. That is what we all try to do at the shelter.”

Sabine Shamet

What she loves about the shelter: “The staff here is really hard working, dedicated and fun-loving. They have a cool positive energy. Karen does a great job running it; she is a really sweet person. Dr. Jessica Thiele is really easy to talk to to. The shelter is a positive thing for the whole community.”

Judy and Megan Volmert

Service leads to career for Megan: “I would like to be a vet. This is introducing me to how dogs react in certain situations. They are all unique. It takes time to get to know them. When you do it is worth it.”

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Home on the Range

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Animals of all kinds find sanctuary at Where Pigs Fly Farm and Pigs Aloft Museum

Story and photos by Sally Ince

“When pigs fly” is what Cindy Brenneke told her brother years ago when he asked when she would return to the farm life. Yet, her love for animals did exactly that. Cindy grew up on a farm in Taos, Missouri, with her family. When she moved out at 17 she swore she would never live on a farm again. She enrolled at Truman State University where she earned her industrial science degree and then began working as a graphic designer and became the owner of two gym studios in St. Louis.

Cindy Brenneke cuddles with a young goat at her popular animal haven, Where Pigs Fly Farm, in Linn.

But Cindy has always had a passion for animals. As a little girl she had dreams of being a veterinarian. When she did finally decide she wanted to return to her true calling, she only started off with a few farm animals to begin a small weekend petting zoo in Owensville. From then on Cindy’s small zoo turned into an ever-growing animal sanctuary, petting zoo and home to the largest pig museum in the U.S. when she considered expanding to a new farm two years ago. And as fate would have it, she was able to get the perfect place all within five days.

“I was doing the little weekend farm thing and then God tapped me on the shoulder and said, ‘you’re going to get a bigger place,’ and I was like, ‘Oh no I’m not, this is it,’” Cindy said. “So then I was like ‘well God if I get a bigger place this is what I need’ and I listed off like 10 things and I was very specific about what I wanted. Well I told some girlfriends about it that night and I said you know what the place probably doesn’t exist and if it does I can’t afford it, but I said, ‘keep your eyes open.’”

That night someone sent Cindy a listing for the place where Where Pigs Fly Farm is now, which she would have never found because she wasn’t looking within that price range. That following Monday, she looked at the place and it had everything on her checklist. She called the Realtor, who met her Tuesday.

“I came in, looked at the house and was like holy cow it’s perfect for the pig museum, I had all the buildings I needed for the animals, I had everything I needed,” she said. “I went down to the Legends Bank dressed in shorts, T-shirt and tennis shoes. I walked into the bank and applied for the loan and this was a pretty big loan. Then they came out to my farm on Wednesday, they called me on Thursday and they said we’ll give you the loan for the full amount but if you can get the price down, get the price down.”

Cindy stopped by the Realtor’s office, gave her earnest money and submitted her bid.

“Normally you know when you submit a bid for property, you argue back and forth, ‘nah uh.’ She called me on Friday and she said your bid’s been accepted,” she said. “So I always say it was God’s wish that this is what I do.”

Lots of pigs roam Where Pigs Fly Farm, which is home to the world’s second largest museum dedicated to the animal, Pigs Aloft Museum.

The new Where Pigs Fly Farm, located in Linn, has helped Cindy go from caring for roughly 50 animals to now being able to help nearly 600. This includes a wide variety of species such as dogs, cats, sheep, goats, cattle, a llama, an alpaca, regular and mini-sized horses and donkeys, peacocks, ducks, geese, rabbits, Patagonian cavies (which are a rabbit-like animal typically found in Argentina), guinea pigs, ferrets, a variety of birds and, you guessed it, pigs, lots and lots of pigs.

On top of being able to care for such loving animals, Cindy also loves being able to teach on the farm. Where Pigs Fly Farm is a popular field trip destination for schools across the state including New Bloomfield, Ashland and St. Louis. Children get hands-on experience with small animals near the barn and large animals while enjoying a hayride through the pastures.

“We tell them about the pigs and all the different animals and how to feed the animals and how to treat the animals,” she said.

Cindy has also managed to build an animal clinic where she works closely with local veterinarians and veterinarians from Missouri State University to care for the animals on the property. She has hopes to one day open the clinic to the public to offer low cost spaying and neutering.

While most of the animals on the farm are permanent rescue residents, there are animals available for adoption such as cats and pigs for those looking to expand their families. Cindy also works actively to find permanent and foster homes for homeless pets on the farm’s Facebook page at facebook.com/Where-Pigs-Fly-Farm-Pigs-Aloft-Museum.

The animals aren’t the only attraction at the Where Pigs Fly farm. It is also home to the second largest pig collection in the world and may soon become the largest. The collection started with Ross and Susi Honsa, as it was Ross’s dream to hold the world’s record number of pig collectibles. However, before Ross could complete his collection, he passed away of cancer and wished that his collection be put on public display.

Three years later, Susi learned about the Where Pigs Fly Farm when her sister heard an interview with Cindy on the KEZ 99.9 radio station located in Phoenix, Arizona. When Susi contacted Cindy, she asked if she would accept Ross’s 14,500 piece collection. Touched by Ross’s determination and love for pigs, Cindy decided to not only to display his collection, but to keep collecting pigs until they hold the world record title. Since then, Cindy has received pigs from visitors as well as thousands of pigs from other collectors. The house on the farm currently holds more than 30,000 pigs.

Visitors to Where Pigs Fly Farm enjoy interacting with a friendly bird resident. There are more than 600 animals roaming the land guests can feed and pet.

Cindy finds publicly displaying the collection truly magical. When she receives calls from collectors who want to add to their personal museum collection, she learns how much it really means to them. She once drove all the way to Fort Wayne, Indiana, to pick up pigs from a collector named Barbara Alt, whose life joy was collecting pigs and watching rainbows. Sadly, Barbara passed away from brain cancer shortly after giving her collection to Cindy. A few months after her death, friends of Barbara came to see her collection. Cindy recalls it beginning to rain outside as the friends looked over the collection, but as soon as they started leaving the museum the rain stopped and formed a rainbow in the sky.

“It was a special moment and I think it let them know she was happy,”Cindy said.

The museum’s collection has become so large it has also set to spread to the barn’s loft as soon as they can raise enough money to fix up the space. Having the second largest pig museum and one of the largest petting zoos in Missouri, the farm also attracts visitors from around the globe.

“We’ve had people from Finland, Japan, France and all over the world,” Cindy said. She recalled one visit when two men from Finland stopped by to see the museum earlier this year. “They were all excited and stuff so I’m like, ‘So why are you guys in this part of Missouri?’ and they said, ‘To see the museum!’ and I said, ‘Really?’ ‘Yeah, we’re road tripping across America and this is one of the sites we had to see,’ they said.”

Cindy also recalls a visit from a Canadian couple that accidentally took her peacock for a ride on their RV.

“They had spent the night here and he was roosted on the top of their RV and then so they take off down the highway,” she said. “So of course they’re going by people and people are waving them down and stuff like, ‘You’ve got a peacock on top of your RV!’ So they get all the way up to the Conoco, which is like three miles up the road, then they call me and are like ‘We’ve got your peacock on our roof.’ … They just turned around and drove back here and even when they got back here he still didn’t want to get down, so they actually had to crawl up the RV and chase him off.”’

Where Pigs Fly is not currently government funded, so they rely mainly on funds from visitors and the hard work from volunteers to maintain the museum and take care of the animals. Fundraising events like their annual Spring Fling they recently hosted in April also goes toward raising money for the animals vet care at the farm’s clinic.

If you’re looking for some family fun, the farm can also host events such as birthday parties, reunions and sometimes even weddings. For more information about the Where Pigs Fly Farm and museum, you can visit www.wherepigsflyfarm.com.

Come visit just at Where Pigs Fly Farm

 Hours of Operation: 11 a.m.-6 p.m., Wednesday through Sunday

 Admission: $3 per person (includes food for animals)

Overnight camping is available if reserved in advance.

Directions from Jefferson City: Take Highway 50 east approximately 23 miles through Linn. You will see the big barn sitting high on the hill on the right hand side of the road, just three miles east of Linn Technical College.

Questions? Call or text 314-241-3488

Family Fun at Where Pigs Fly Farm
Visitors interact with all kinds of animals at the farm including llamas, an alpaca, cows, horses and pigs.
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A landmark renovation in Jefferson City

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Donna and Michael Deetz’s 1860s home receives
Historic Landmark status

Story by Samantha Pogue • Photos by Julie Smith

Donna Deetz has loved history, its preservation and its celebration her whole life. A St. Louis native and well traveled U.S. resident, she and her husband Michael ultimately landed in Jefferson City, a town that has fueled that exact passion and a place where she has used that passion in many of the successful businesses they own.

Donna Deetz and her husband have renovated a number of older buildings on the city’s east side, including the one they now call home at 720 E. High St.

Take Click2Sell4U and Kay’s Collectibles, where someone else’s discarded items are rejuvenated treasures for patrons. Also owned by Donna and Michael, The Trolley Company takes residents and visitors on historic tours, as well as provides transportation for special events such as birthdays, proms, reunions and weddings.

Deetz Enterprises rehabs historic east-end properties, including the building at 620 E. High St. that houses Click2Sell4U and Kay’s Collectibles downstairs and now two renovated 1,110-plus square foot apartments upstairs.

Less than a block away, Donna and Michael bought a 1900 Victorian-style home with Laurelanne Bellezzo and Chris Huckleberry in 2009, restoring it to its former glory and opening the “High Street Retreat” as a vacation-rent-browner facility serving reunions, Katy Trail visitors, wedding parties and other large groups. In 2012, they received the

 Golden Hammer Award from the Historic City of Jefferson and last year the three-story brick building earned a historic landmark status from the city.

Donna and Michael have earned that honor once again. The city named their own renovated home built in about 1860 a historic landmark May 15, a rewarding celebration for a true labor of love.

IF THESE WALLS COULD TALK

Even though Donna knows some of the background of her historic home, she said they could never track down the complete history. Seen in the locally famous 1869 drawing, “Bird’s Eve View,” that shows an aerial depiction of downtown Jefferson City, the original structure was a two-room German style cottage house with a basement underneath. The home’s current upstairs living room and kitchen was this initial structure.

“It wasn’t a kitchen at that time because they had outside kitchens. … Then they added on a side over here … and then they added another side … and then they added the back inside porch area,” Donna said. “When we redid the basement area you could see three or four different sets of concrete. We don’t know when they added all those different additions. … There was an outside door leading into the now kitchen area because there is a transom, and there is another transom above the door in the hallway.”

(Courtesy of Donna Deetz) The home at 716 changed hands a couple of times from 1964-84, when Robert and Shirley Fuchs bought it, as well as operated the animal hospital at 718.

As the home had different interior and exterior transformations through the years, so did its owners and purposes. When the finished home earned a Golden Hammer Award in 2014 from the Historic City of Jefferson, historical findings revealed the lots of 720, 718 and 716 E. High St. where the Deetz home and property resides were among 10 purchased from the government originally by James Bowlin, who served in Congress and as chief clerk for the state house of representatives. Living in St. Louis, Bowling later sold the landto a partnership of other St. Louis residents, a News Tribune article about the home’s award stated.

Deiderich Oysterman eventually owned these three lots, and he or his son William, who owned them in 1885, likely built the houses, with the 1860 home at 720 where Donna and Michael currently reside. In his 1908 will, William directed the remaining two homes be sold separately. The Rev. Joseph Selinger, rector of St. Peter Catholic Church, bought both 718 and 720.

A Missouri State Penitentiary yardmaster, an oil company agent, a railroad foreman, a bank teller and a confectionery owner then owned the nearly 1,000-square-foot home at 716 E. High St. In 1937, veterinarian C.W. Schulz bought 716, where he lived and worked, and in 1939, Schulz converted 718 into an animal hospital.

The home at 716 changed hands a couple of times from 1964-84, when Robert and Shirley Fuchs bought it, as well as operated the animal hospital at 718. Rev. Selinger had sold 718 in 1918. Owners through the years included a prison guard and a barber before the animal hospital operated through 2000.

(Courtesy of Donna Deetz) Because the house was unglazed original brick, the tuck pointing had to be done by grinding out each brick, then priming, reglazing and remortaring.

The home at 720 E. High St. is more than 1,200 square feet. Rev. Selinger also rented this property before selling in 1918. Prison guards and factory workers also owned this property later. By 1946, it became two apartments.

Having two separate living spaces appealed to Donna and Michael and Donna’s parents, who were moving from Warrenton, Missouri, and going to live with them. Their businesses were already in the heart of downtown Jefferson City and so was their community service, with Donna still serving on the Historic Preservation Commission, Historic City of Jefferson board, Eastside Business Association and Zonta Jefferson City.

“I wanted to get where we were and spending a lot of our time,” she said, noting they had lived in Holts Summit. “With my parents coming here, we decided it was time to really work on this and get it done.”

RESTORATION AND REVITALIZATION

 After the animal hospital had been out of business for 20 years, the buildings had been vacant. Donna said many people used it as a place to dump their trash.

“That was immense and took a lot of time. We went through three giant dumpsters to clean out the three buildings, filled with debris,” she said.

(Courtesy of Donna Deetz) After completely cleaning the historic home, the family readied each of the rooms to receive needed renovations, as with one of the original rooms (now upstairs living room) in the home at 720 E. High St.

Donna, Michael, her parents and her five siblings and their families went to work during the next two months doing the vast majority of the renovations to the home outside of electrical, HVAC and other contract required duties.

Because the house was unglazed original brick, the tuck pointing had to be done by grinding out each brick, then priming, reglazing and remortaring. The inside was taken down to the brick walls. Painting, new baseboards, woodwork, cleaning and rebuilds such as the back porch, window and door areas, closet additions, landscaping and other projects took the family renovation team about two months to complete. With many modern amenities such as new appliances, spray insulation foam and ADA accessible bathroom amenities, many original parts of the home can be seen and have been restored to their former glory.

“Being it was German architecture, it is very plain … but we tried to keep a lot of the original as much as we could,” Donna said. “We got as much of the original wood as we could to keep it consistent with what is and was here. My brother-in-law rebuilt all the woodwork that either was rotted away or warped, making it look like the original.”

Two transoms show the home’s original outline both in the main entrance’s hallway upstairs and leading from that hallway into the now kitchen in Donna’s parents’ main level apartment. High ceilings follow throughout the home, including the original living room, the front bedroom used by Donna’s mother and the back bedroom for Donna’s dad, which also has an extended office workspace that overlooks the spacious backyard and his beloved gardens.

An original and refurbished stairwell leads to Donna and Michael’s separate and beautifully renovated basement apartment, which also has an outside entrance.

The original brick wall was restored that now gives the hallway in Donna and Micheal’s downstairs apartment in the historic home at 720 E. High St. stunning character.

Even though Donna said getting everything level and figuring out how to turn the basement into an apartment were the most challenging aspects of the renovation, they managed to create a spacious area complete with a living room, workroom that houses their office equipment and massive collection of DVDs, a wash room, ample kitchen, master bedroom, two full bathrooms and mudroom area that leads to the patio.

Exposed brick walls that hold up the historic structure are now restored as accent pieces to show the house’s significant character. Other unique antique pieces help provide that same appeal, such as stones from when the Capitol building burned and were in front of their High Street Retreat property that are now used for benches and retaining walls in the Deetz home’s patio and garden.

The couple now rents out the refurbished home at 716 and built a carriage style two-car garage for their family’s home where the animal hospital once stood at 718.

Donna said it is nice to have her parents around, with both couples going on vacations and spending lots of time together. In the future, Donna knows that their hard work could turn into future investment with their home serving as two separate apartments that could be rented out.

Donna and Michael are now ready to rehab another historic property at the corner of Ash and High streets, currently outfitted for nine apartments. They plan is to take it back down to six nice-size rentals with a townhouse on one side, allowing new residents to enjoy the growing East End Entertainment District and short walk to downtown.

With two separate two-bedroom, two-bath apartments in one home, Donna and Micheal Deetz’s renovations to the 1890s house have created a downtown oasis, complete with large yard and multi-level patios and gardens.

“East End is my passion and I want to make sure it is taken care of. It is so historic and there is so much potential here. There are so many neat houses in here that can really be fixed up well and get back to their original way,” she said.

Donna and her family are excited about what they have done to help preserve, revitalize and celebrate Jefferson City’s history. They truly are living it and want others to do the same.

“It is remarkable the difference in how the neighborhood is being treated since we have rehabbed these homes. The apartment complex next door is rehabbing. The houses across the street are. The amount of traffic that is walking in this area is increasing,” she said. “It makes a difference in how the neighborhood looks. That is one of the things we are proud of.”

For more information about High Street Retreat, call 573-619-4377. Michelle Brooks contributed to this article. 

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Capital City CASA therapy dog Olive has helped 100-plus children

Story by Samantha Pogue

Since 2016, a young 16-year-old teenage girl has worked with the Capital City Court-Appointed Special Advocates(CASA), which connects children in the legal system who have been abused, neglected or found in unstable homes with 60 adult advocates to represent them. In August that same year, Olive, a small poodle mix, began helping that young lady keep calm while at the Cole County Courthouse and during Judge Jon Beetem’s children’s docket.

“I can’t tell you how rewarding it is to me to see that smile as we walk into the hallway of the courthouse,” said Lisa Bax, Olive’s handler and CASA volunteer advocate. “That smile is what brings me to my passion of what we are doing; that split second and that beautiful smile. I think it is the same for Olive. She feeds off that body language from the child as well.”

Olive is the rescued shelter dog that was trained to be a comforting influence on children as they, through no fault of their own, go through court proceedings.

More than two years ago, Lisa joined CASA and her mission was to get a therapy dog to help the approximately 200 children currently going through the 19th Circuit Court system. She was able to connect with CBS’ “Lucky Dog” host Brandon McMillan, an expert animal trainer in Los Angeles who rescues dogs, works with them at his Lucky Dog Ranch training facility and makes each canine ready for their new home or special job. Olive became the perfect fit for Lisa, CASA and the children she helps.

Now, Olive has helped more than 100 children and become a celebrity after being featured on McMillan’s show, her many connections she has made in the community and her recent work again with McMillan in a nationwide commercial for Cosequin, a vet-approved medical joint health supplement for cats and dogs, that aired during the Westminster Dog Show and released on social media in February.

“We have been in American Shoe and we have had kids come up to us who have watched the show and say, ‘This is Olive!’” Lisa said. “It is very sweet, and I’m so glad she is gettingthe recognition; she definitely deserves it.”

From ‘Lucky Dog’ TO CASA dog

Lisa has always had a heart for canines, including her 10-yearold chocolate lab Diva whose personality “lives up to her name,” she added.

She has worked for Bartimus, Frickleton Robertson Rader law firm for nearly 17 years as the office manager of their satellite office in Jefferson City. A few years ago, one of the firm’s attorneys and a CASA board member, Mary Winter, encouraged Lisa to become a volunteer advocate with the organization.

(Photo by Mary Winter) Brandon McMillan, expert animal trainer and host of CBS Saturday morning show “Lucky Dog,” poses with Olive and Lisa Bax.

“After I started working here, my passion for kids has been extreme. My husband (Danny) and I don’t have any children, and Mary said you would be so good with these kids, too,’” Lisa said. “I looked into it and did the training in early 2016, appointed by Judge Beetem that March.”

She started to see how a therapy dog could be a great icebreaker and tool in assisting the children. She regularly watched “Lucky Dog,” which airs Saturday mornings on CBS, and thought McMillan could help CASA find the right canine. Lisa first tried to connect with McMillan through his “Lucky Dog” websites and later by reaching out to Argus Service Dog Foundation he co-founded. With limited response, Lisa emailed McMillan once more to see if he could offer any advice. Then one day, her office phone rang.

“It was Brandon. He says he got my message and wanted me to explain to him again what we wanted to do. … We need something to be a resource when these kids are at the courthouse to be a positive distraction and give them unconditional love. He said he liked it but had never done anything like this before,” she said. “He said he would have producers contact me. … sure enough, they called.”

Over the next several months, Lisa went through lots of paperwork, interviews and other discussions with the show’s producers. McMillan also asked Lisa what kind of dog she wanted, knowing Labradors, Golden Retrievers and other similar breeds often make good therapy dogs.

Knowing the children who would benefit from a CASA therapy dog might not have socialized with animals before or could be fearful of a bigger dog, he suggested a smaller canine would work best. And he had a 10-pound hypoallergenic poodle mix that would be the perfect fit.

At one point, Olive had no home, walking the streets of Los Angeles alone. McMillan rescued her and began working with her, noticing some of her unique tendencies.

“When you hold her, you can tug at her ears, tail or fur, which kids often do, and she gives no response. There are no signs of aggression at all,” she said, noting McMillan also saw how Olive gravitated toward children. “He first thought Olive would be great for autistic children. Then, when he got my message and the volume of children she could reach, he knew she was the one for the job.” 

(Courtesy of Lisa Bax) Attorney Mary Winter talks with a child actor who holds Olive during filming for “Lucky Dog.” Now a CASA therapy dog, Olive helps children during courtroom proceedings.

McMillan and his team came to Jefferson City in July 2016, filming for three days and working with Olive and Lisa at her home Taos. He went over the seven common commands – sit, stay, down, come, off, heel and no – with Lisa and Olive, as well as performed a mock court setting with child actors and ran through typical scenarios.

Lisa worked with Olive for seven months after filming and got Olive’s AKC Good Citizen and therapy dog certification from Jennifer Winkelman at the MidMO Dog Training Center. Modifications and training with McMillan have continued since the show.

“To this day, he still keeps in touch with her because he built such a great bond during the time he trained her,” she said. “He said you are going to encounter many different variables and not all things will have to be the same in your training or you have to do it the same way. You make modifications with Olive to fit that variable and that need at that specific time. … We are always training and he is an intricate part of that along the way.”

Comfort in canine affection

 After Beetem appointed and swore in the first trained CASA volunteer advocates on Jan. 17, 2011, the program, which was established and incorporated in 2009 by the Kiwanis Club, was able to assign volunteers. It became Beetem’s goal that every new case is given a CASA volunteer, which provides an independent voice for the child.

(Courtesy of Lisa Bax) Capital City CASA advocate Lisa Bax and therapy dog Olive during Shop with a Cop at Walmart.

“Everybody involved with the case has a special legal reason for being there … and they are limited by law what they can and cannot do. … We are there for the child and are a voice in the courtroom to give Judge Beetem what is happening in his or her daily routine,” Winter said. “CASA fills a role that no one else fills and can speak for the child when no one else can.”

In most cases, a CASA volunteer is assigned to a specific child, following them through the process that starts when they are taken from their home and put into the judicial system in hopes for reunification with their family through to the next secure and stable path in their life. In Lisa and Olive’s case, they will service all of the children at some point during their visits in the court system. Lisa also serves as a mentor to the children.

“We are there as a consistent friend and mentor because they typically don’t have consistency in their life at that time,” she said. “Since I’m servicing all the kiddos with Olive, I don’t get assigned specific children. However, I have been assigned to advocate for two children recently. These two children have bonded exceptionally well with Olive and requested Olive make visits to school, the housing facility and documentation from Judge Beetem, who appointed us to be in those children’s lives.”

Olive and Lisa have clocked more than 50 hours since August 2016 just visiting children during Beetem’s docket. Olive has also attended an adoption hearing and helped in special juvenile criminal cases through the Cole County prosecutor’s office, sitting with the youth while they wait for court but not allowed to go in like other children Olive helps.

“I would like to see some court rules changed in order to allow a therapy dog on the stand with a child during a criminal hearing,” Lisa said, noting Missouri currently does not allow that unlike other states, such as Florida.

Outside of taking enjoyable walks, Lisa Bax sometimes uses a pet stroller for Olive during CASA visits, allowing children with physical disabilities more ease in interacting with her.

Through requests, Lisa and Olive visit with CASA children at the Great Circle, schools, family support team meetings, their homes and other outlets, make stops at the Prenger Center for juveniles, United Way board presentations, the 2017 Life of a Foster Child annual bus tour, Jefferson City Christmas Parade and Shop with a Cop at Walmart, to name a few.

“The CASA director may call and say hey, ‘I have a child sitting down at JCAC (Jefferson City Academic Center) that is having a bad day, can you go sit with them for a half hour?’ Or we may do a home visit for children in a foster home. … We are venturing into more of those type of visits now,” Lisa said.

Regardless of where Olive may serve, she quickly connects with the children she meets. Through McMillan’s initial help and Lisa’s continued efforts, Olive understands what a good home is like. She can empathize with the children going through the process and wanting that same stable home environment.

“She is an animal but she has a feeling of knowing these kids are experiencing hard times,” she said. “Somehow she knows how to plant a little kiss or nose snuggle, calming them down.”

For CASA, Lisa and Olive’s work has given a voice to the organization, which has often done its good work in silence.

“Having Olive here and what Lisa is doing with Olive has raised the awareness for CASA, so we do get more volunteers now. They know what CASA is and want to volunteer and support us. … Lisa took this seed that was planted, ran with it and made it successful. She and Olive have done a wonderful job,” Winter said.

When Lisa and Olive are not helping children, they are hiking, shopping, enjoying a Culver’s pup cup, hanging out with grandma or having family time with Danny and Diva. Olive has found her forever home, her forever mission and her forever family. Lisa feels the same way.

“For me, I found another best friend. … Who knew my new best friend would come in a small package,” she said with a smile.

(Courtesy of Lisa Bax) Lisa and Danny Bax enjoy having both Diva and Olive as their family.

For more information about Capital City CASA, call 573-893- CASA (2272) or visit CapitalCityCASA.org or on Facebook at “Capital City CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates).”

Register now for the Capital City CASA Golf Tournament

There are many ways to support Capital City CASA. Become a volunteer advocate, donate to help expand services and aid in advocate recruitment and training, or attend fundraising events like the third annual Capital City CASA Golf Tournament on Monday, May 21 at Jefferson City Country Club.

Lunch and registration begins at 11:30 a.m., with tee off at 1 p.m. and an awards banquet following golf. The $160 per person entry fee includes a cart, prizes, lunch, golf and the awards banquet. To register, visit CapitalCityCASA.org.

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A dog’s best friend

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Jennifer Winkelman’s passion for pups is seen both
in her training work and her philanthropic efforts

Story by Samantha Pogue • Photos by Julie Smith

In the late ‘90s, Jennifer and her family faced one of the hardest times in their lives. After fighting a more than 20-year battle with cancer, Jennifer’s father got the unfortunate news things were coming to an end.

Jennifer had two older dogs at the time, and her four children were quite young and not able to play with them due to the pet’s ages and own health issues. She decided to give them all the comfort they needed: a new puppy.

Jennifer Winkelman loves to walk or bike with her dogs, including Neptune seen here, along the Katy Trail, that passes close to her home and businesses.

Neptune, a black Labrador mix, came to the Winkelman home. He not only helped their family; he also helped Jennifer’s dad.

“My dad came into my house at Christmas just drained and Neptune crawled up and put his head on dad’s chest. How does he know? Dogs are so intuitive as to who needs the loving,” she said. “Neptune is the reason I got into dog training. I got into training him and liked it so much that I took every training class I could find.”

About 10 years ago, Jennifer opened MidMo Dog Training Center in Tebbetts, offering dog obedience classes, behavioral training and therapy dog testing, to name a few services. She also takes her pack of five dogs, including Neptune, to special events, performing as the MidMo Waggers Drill Team. Three of the dogs are certified therapy dogs that have frequented nursing homes and the Missouri River Regional Library’s Tail Waggin’ Tutor’s Program. She assists with 4-H dog projects, serves as superintendent of the Cole County 4-H Dog Show and works with the Tipton Correctional Facility and Dogwood Animal Shelter in their Puppies for Parole Program.

A self-described “workaholic,” Jennifer has a passion for teaching others, instructing students at her Mid-Mo Conservatory of Dance, helping homeowners navigate the housing market as an award-winning Realtor at RE/MAX Jefferson City, home schooling her children, teaching violin and viola to aspiring musicians, and offering education through extracurricular activities such as choreographing dances in the Jefferson City Home Educators Teen Club’s spring 2018 musical, “The Lady Pirates of Captain Bree.”

No matter if she is re-homing rescued dogs, leading a community event performance or finding the right home for a young family, Jennifer is thankful her heart is in helping people and their pets.

“I feel like dogs helped me out a lot during that time, so I feel like it is payback to them. … I just want to make the world a better place for people and dogs,” she said.

A lifelong animal lover

Jennifer’s compassion for animals started long before she trained dogs. Growing up across the Missouri River about five miles from where she currently lives and runs her businesses, Jennifer was surrounded by all kinds of animals on her family’s 30-acre farm.

(Courtesy of Jennifer Winkelman) Jennifer Winkelman feeds a robin she nursed back to good health during her childhood.

“Where we were located … they could essentially roam free on the farm, though they were guilty of the occasional wondering further,” said Ernie Smith, Jennifer’s brother. “During our childhood the family went through ‘phases’ with farm animals. We went through a couple broods of chickens where we each had our pet chick, soon to grow up to be a chicken (the same went with ducks, goats and other animals). We had inside pets, too, fish, parakeets, hamsters; and we always had farm dogs. Looking back on it, it was quite the zoo.”

Jennifer was also into birds. She gave aid to many of the wild animals that came to their farm, with her mom encouraging these projects.

“I had a baby robin once. It still had its egg tooth; that is how little it was. I raised it until about four weeks. I would walk outside and it would land on my shoulder. … It matured and it was gone,” she said. “I just loved them all. For awhile I wanted to be a vet, but I didn’t go that route.”

After graduating from Jefferson City High School in 1990, she attended the Conservatory of Dance at University of Missouri – Kansas City, earning her bachelor’s degree in dance in 1996 and later her teaching certificate. She also owned and operated Dancenter and Spotlight Dance Wear from 1993-1999 and founded Encore Dance company in 1993, which has toured the local schools many times and worked with the Moscow Ballet in 2007 for their “The Nutcracker” performance.

 Jennifer now has taught for more than 30 years, danced for more than 40 and opened MidMo Conservatory of Dance more than 10 years ago. Currently, 20 students learn ballet, tap, hip-hop and clogging, and perform in countless community events such as Kidsfest, Living Windows, Multicultural Festival, River City Fall Festival and Missouri River Regional Library District programs. She has played violin for 37 years and has taught violin and viola to all ages for the last 14 years.

Jennifer Winkelman pets two of her dogs, with her husband Bob and two youngest children attending to the family’s other three.

Before training dogs at MidMo Dog Training Center, Jennifer and her pack of six dogs at the time and four children joined a dog performance team.

“With four kids and six dogs, every person in my family had a dog assigned to them,” she said. However, with her husband Bob’s work as an American Airlines pilot taking him away from home often, a long drive to practices and performances with the team, and the callout from friends to do shows in the capital city, Jennifer established the MidMo Waggers Dog Drill Team in 1999.

For about four years, Jennifer took her kids and their dogs, as well as other youth and their pets, to perform a variety of tricks, skits and family-friendly fun with their lovable pooches at a variety of community events. Now, only Jennifer’s family “pack” performs a handful of shows a year at events, the library and an annual activity at Trinity Lutheran School. The 20-minute show includes agility course runs, tricks, music, audience and dog interaction, care education and even a game show.

“We have a dog that has a buzzer and ‘talks,’ bringing an audience member up, asking them a question and seeing if the dog gets it first,” Jennifer said with a smile. “The kids ask lots of questions. … It helps them get more acclimated to dogs. Sometimes I will have someone come up and tell me that they taught their dog a trick. That is my goal is to get them to do more with their dogs.”

Training dogs and their humans

When Jennifer started MidMo Dog Training Center, one of the main purposes was to get owners to do more with their dogs. Being certified through the Certification Council for Professional Dog Trainers, a certified AKC Canine Good Citizen Award evaluator and STAR Puppy evaluator, Jennifer primarily teaches obedience, behavior problems and agility.

Jennifer Winkelman shows how her agility course at MidMo Dog Training Center is used with her pup Neptune, one of her five dogs.

When she first started her business, her site outside had no fences around the agility course, using portable ring gates every time they would practice. However to meet her increasing clientele and to hold classes year-round, she created a space in her home that duals as both a climate-controlled inside dog training center and dance studio.

When a new client comes to Jennifer, she first figures out what their goals are. If it is basic obedience, she recommends taking a Level 1 group class.

“The participants build on each other and by the end it seems they are most successful. They are learning everything despite all the distractions of other dogs and people,” she said.

By the end of the Level 1 basic obedience class, the dog and its owner knows commands such as sit, down and stay, as well as walking nicely on a leash among other calls. They also do exercises to make the dog attentive and relaxation exercises if they are nervous. In week five, the dogs also train on the agility equipment and do some dog sports.

“It is important to exercise your dog. If he knows his basic commands, he can sit and then run through the tunnel,” she said. “We can combine it all and it is a lot of fun for the dog and the owner.”

Each dog takes an AKC Canine Good Citizen test at the end of the six weeks, which includes 10 parts with things like being met by a friendly stranger, coming when called and walking around other dogs. They then move to Level 2, which includes learning to walk off a leash, more challenging rally dog sports and harder commands.

Jennifer Winkelman watches her pup Scruffy enjoy resting on one of the areas of her agility course at MidMo Dog Training Center in Tebbetts.

Carl Otten, a retiree living in Linn, got Duchess at 8 months old about a year ago. Currently enrolled in the Level 2 class, he is continuously impressed with how she follows basic commands and learning harder commands while enrolled at MidMo Dog Training Center. She rests at Otten’s feet while he sits at the computer, responds well to “yes” when she follows a command and is following those same commands with other members of Otten’s

family.

“I have a 5-year-old grandson. We went for a walk together (recently), and the 5-year-old had her on the leash. When he would stop, she would stop,” he said. “One of the first things you learn is eye contact. We play all sorts of games with that. … Plus, Duchess gets the social contact with other dogs here, which she doesn’t get where I live.”

Otten appreciates the information and tips Jennifer offers with each class, such as ways to use leashes and when to get the dogs nails trimmed.

“It has helped Duchess tremendously training with Jennifer. … She is very knowledgeable and she has virtually in every lesson gave us tips to take care of the dog,” he said.

If an owner’s dog has more problem behaviors, they can take private lessons that are done at the center or the client’s home. For example, if the dog is attacking people at the front door, she will go to their house because it is location specific. Owners can also drop off their dog to train, and Jennifer often trains dogs she has rescued to re-home, with her brother Ernie, a married paint formulation chemist with six children living in Tulsa, Oklahoma, being a recipient.

(Courtesy of Ernie Smith) Mary Smith, Jennifer Winkelman’s niece, sits with Calor, a rescued dog Winkelman trained and Ernie and his family now raises in Oklahoma.

Already taking care of a Chiwienie, named Hershey, Ernie learned about Duke, an 11-month-old Alaskan Malamute pup previously belonging to one of his sister’s past clients.

“We were not looking for another dog, furthest thing from my mind. When I saw his picture on Facebook, it was a surreal moment. I just knew I was meant to connect with that dog,” Ernie said. “Ironically my wife (Christina) had a similar thought, but thought her husband (me) would never go for getting another dog, so she did not bring it up. She was shocked when I asked her.”

Duke was renamed to Calor, which means fever, heat, love, passion, zeal, warm weather and warm glow in Latin which aptly describes this thick-coated, high-energy dog. Despite destroying a smart phone in 10 seconds among other issues the first week, Calor settled down and is growing into an awesome dog, Ernie said.

“Jennifer’s training made that first week survivable. Calor had a good grasp of the basic commands. He was also potty trained,” he said. “Jennifer did provide us with a nice packet of information about Calor’s previous training and tips on how to continue it. … Fundamentally, my sister is training humans, not dogs – training the trainers. It is a good thing for dog owners to learn these techniques and take ownership of their dog’s education.”

Connecting dogs to the community

Jennifer takes that education beyond clients at the MidMo Dog Training Center; she brings it to the community. For about three years, she has worked with the Puppies for Parole Program with the Tipton Correctional Facility and Dogwood Animal Shelter in Osage Beach. Every other week, she trains more than 10 dogs and about 20 handlers – offenders at the prison – basic dog obedience and troubleshoots problems they may be having. The dogs live inside the cells with their handlers, who work with them all the time.

“Those dogs are all from Dogwood Animal Shelter, come into the prison, get trained and are adopted back out through DAS,” she said. “You get a dog that is already trained, has all these nice manners and good behavior.”

After the eight-week process, a graduation is held at the prison, with staff members, shelter representatives and handlers present. For Jennifer, it is truly touching to hear the offenders talk about their dog, their experience and show tricks they have taught them.

“I had them fill out a survey and read their personal comments. They described the different things the program taught them, how proud they were to be in it and how they helped them stay on task to what they need to be doing with their own behaviors. They learned troubleshooting problems when it came to their life and do it positively, just like when training their dog,” she said.

(Courtesy of Jennifer Winkelman) Jennifer Winkelman helps 4-H members train and show their dogs in a county and state shows.

Other memories include the many successful stories of dogs that end up helping someone in need or get their own second chance.

“I had a client that said this dog (named Happy) had come up in their yard; someone had shot him. They were fostering him and didn’t know what to do. … I talked them into taking him to DAS so he could go through Puppies for Parole. We trained him there and now Happy is running around on someone’s farm. He got his second start.”

Children get their start in dog training through the 4-H program, in which Jennifer serves as the dog project leader to youth and their pets who compete in county and state-level fairs and competitive agility shows. She has seen multiple children receive scholarships, money and ribbons through these activities, including her three sons now 20-year-old Lucas, 18-year-old Tanner, 16-year-old Skyler and 14-year-old daughter Cori.

“I think it was good for them, because they are shy and normally wouldn’t put themselves on display,” she said. “It built leadership, communications, problem-solving skills and confidence in them. That is what I love about 4-H; it teaches life skills.”

Comfort, compassion and happiness are also important life skills to humans, and therapy dogs can provide that to them in spades. Serving as an evaluator for Therapy Dog International, Jennifer has three certified therapy dogs in her pack, which includes Neptune, two other black lab mixes Nitro and Ortin, a pit mix Faith and a terrier mix Scruffy.

She has seen multiple pet owners bring in their dogs to be evaluated to become a therapy dog, including Olive, the local celebrity therapy dog for Capital City CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates). Like Olive, who is a volunteer alongside her handler and CASA member Lisa Bax, both the dog and person must pass the test.

(Courtesy of Jennifer Winkelman) Jennifer (pictured with her husband Bob) has also seen successes after becoming a Realtor for RE/ MAX Jefferson city, earning the 2017 Jefferson City Area Board of Realtors Community Achievement Award recently for her involvement with the Puppies for Parole program.

Jennifer said outside of successfully meeting the AKC Good Citizen test requirements, a therapy dog must also learn to “leave it,” or not pick up dropped or loose medication, have polite behavior through a doorway, appropriately approach wheelchairs, walkers and crutches on a visit, and be good around children.

“I do get contacted quite a bit about taking the therapy dog test. … I have never had anybody that has not been successful,” she said.

Jennifer has also seen successes after becoming a Realtor for RE/ MAX Jefferson city, earning the 2017 Jefferson City Area Board of Realtors Community Achievement Award recently for her involvement with the Puppies for Parole program.

She finds no matter what avenue in which she is teaching, working or learning, positive reinforcement builds a good relationship. With dog training it is essential.

“I love that dog training is so positive and if done correctly builds a good relationship between a dog and a person,” she said. “When I first started, I didn’t realize dogs were so trainable. One of the first classes I was in, you were supposed to put a treat down and teach the ‘leave it’ command. The dog sat there and looked and didn’t take it. Revelation, dogs are smart. … As people, we don’t believe our dogs are capable of the things that they do. … The main thing is to get involved with your dogs.”

For more information about the next therapy dog test from 3-4 p.m. June 10 at MidMo Dog Training Center and other classes and training, call 573-645-6153 or visit MidMoDogs.com.

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Finding the joy in feeding children

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By Lynn Eaton, registered dietitian and certified diabetes educator 

Capital Region Medical Center

Lynn Eaton

Few health conditions are more prevalent in the news than the childhood obesity “epidemic.” As a registered dietitian, I am often called upon to speak with parents and children about ways to reduce a child’s body mass index (BMI) by helping them lose weight.

Often parents feel that they must police their children’s food choices and amounts eaten, leading to a strained relationship between parent and child. I believe that there is another, more nurturing way to feed children and help them grow into the body that is right for them.

During my dietetic internships, I spent many weeks at Women Infants and Children, or WIC. This federal program provides nutrition education and food vouchers to pregnant women, postpartum women and children under the age of five. Developed by dietitian and family counselor Ellyn Satter, their philosophy is based on the division of responsibility in feeding. I found these principles extremely helpful in my internship and still use them today.

Satter’s division of responsibility in feeding is based on the understanding that when parents do their jobs with feeding, children do their job with eating. According to information published on her website, EllynSatterInstitute.org, the parents’ jobs are to:

• Choose and prepare the food.

• Provide regular meals and snacks.

• Make eating times pleasant.

• Step-by-step, show the child by example how to behave at family mealtime.

• Be considerate of the child’s lack of eating experiences without catering to likes and dislikes.

• Not let the child have food or beverages (except for water) between meal and snack times.

• Let the child grow into the body that is right for them.

The parent needs to trust the child to:

• Eat the amount they need.

• Learn to eat the food the parents eat.

• Grow predictably in a way that is right for them.

• Learn to behave well at mealtime.

You can find more information at www.ellynsatterinstitute.org/how-to-feed/the-division-of-responsibility-in-feeding/.

Simplified, parents are responsible for when meal and snack times occur, where they occur and what is served. Children are responsible for how much of and whether they eat what is provided. It is vital for parents, family members and guests to remain neutral through mealtimes no matter what the child eats or does not eat. It is also important to include a wide variety of foods, including foods that the parent does not like or considers to be “treat” foods. This helps expose children to many different foods while learning that all foods can fit into their diet. Children often need to be exposed to foods multiple times before trying them. That’s normal and parents need to have patience and keep providing their children with new foods to try.

(Photo by Lynn Eaton) Two-year-old Tucker Hagenhoff covers the frozen yogurt grapes with sprinkles.

One important way to help expose the child to new foods is to include them both in preparing meals and in planning what to eat in a way that is appropriate for their age. For example, you might ask a 2-year-old to put chopped carrots on top of a salad, rather than asking them to cut the carrots with a sharp knife. There are a variety of tasks even young children can do, such as pushing buttons on a microwave or blender, washing fruits and vegetables, helping set the table, stirring a non-hot item, or including them in taste tests (if they choose). I find it especially true with the very young that they want to be given a job to do. You are the best judge of what your child is capable of doing.

As far as planning meals, the system my parents used was to ask my siblings and me to prepare one meal for that week. Every week we each picked a recipe to make. We used the ingredients list from the recipe to identify which foods were needed to make the recipe.

We looked in the pantry and refrigerator to see what we already had, compared what each of us needed to make our recipe, and added those items to the weekly grocery list. It taught us to work together, and we learned valuable cooking skills. It also saved my parents time in the grocery store since they only had to go once per week.

Finally, a note on growth. A high BMI is often used to classify people, including children, as fat. This classification can be misleading. Some children are simply bigger than others. Unfortunately, this classification is followed by well-meaning advice on how to slim a child down. In turn, this leads to outside pressures placed on the child to eat a certain way. It is time to stop this! Instead of pressuring your child to conform to a body size and shape that may not be right for them, trust them to eat what and how much they need. If you have already been trying to slim your child down, it may take as long as a few months for the child to trust that you will allow them to eat the amount they determine they need. Keep trusting your child to eat how much and what they need while still providing the structure that is your responsibility. This will teach them to listen to their body’s internal cues on eating. As long as their growth is tracking predictably along the growth curves, they are growing in an acceptable way.

The amazing thing is that this whole process works. I have seen it many, many times. Mealtimes go from being a battle to being pleasant and enjoyable for everyone. Children grow at a pace that is appropriate for them. Children learn to try (and even like!) new foods. Child-parent relationships improve. Children are taught to listen to their internal hunger and fullness cues, a skill that is of the utmost importance throughout a person’s life. It is so rewarding to see the positive impact made in a family by parents doing their jobs in feeding and trusting the child to do their jobs with eating.

Lynn Eaton R.D., L.D., CDE is a registered dietitian and certified diabetes educator. She works at Capital Region Medical Center as an inpatient and critical care dietitian. She also writes a nutrition blog, which you can follow at nutritionnotions.wordpress.com.

After-School Snack: Frozen Yogurt Grapes

(Photo courtesy of Lynn Eaton) Tucker Hagenhoff and Lynn Eaton showcase their finished frozen yogurt grapes they made together.

These frozen bites are a great way to cool off after being out in the hot sun. They take a few minutes to make and kids can easily help.

Ingredients

• 1 pound grapes, washed and removed from stems

• 1 cup vanilla (or your favorite flavor) yogurt.

Dietitian tip: try Greek yogurt for extra protein!

• Coconut flakes, chopped nuts, sprinkles, etc. for topping (if desired)

Directions

Place yogurt in a small bowl. Dip grapes in yogurt and turn to coat. Scoop grapes out of bowl with a fork.

Tap fork on edge of bowl to remove excess yogurt. Place on a baking sheet lined with wax paper. Sprinkle with toppings (if desired) – this is a great place to get kids involved.

Place in freezer for at least two hours or until frozen.

Adapted from recipe by Megan on her blog, Food & Whine (http://foodwhine.com/2014/04/frozenyogurt-coated-grapes.html)

Summertime Dinner:

Citrus-Tarragon Chicken & Vegetable Shish Kabobs

(Submitted photo)

Total time: 2 hrs, 40 mins; marinating time: 2 hrs; prep time: 25 mins; cook time: 15 mins

Ingredients

Chicken

• 1 orange, zested, then juiced, remainder discarded

• 1 lemon, zested, then juiced, remainder discarded

• 1 lime, zested, then juiced, remainder discarded

• 4 cloves garlic, minced

• 1 tbsp fresh or 1 tsp dried tarragon leaves

• ¼ cup reduced sodium soy sauce

• ¼ cup canola oil

• ½ tsp salt

• ½ tsp black pepper

• 1 lb boneless, skinless chicken breasts, cut into 1” cubes

Vegetables

• 1 medium bell pepper, cut into 1-inch squares

• 1 medium onion, cut into 1-inch squares

• 1 cup cherry tomatoes

• 1 cup mushrooms

• 1 cup pineapple chunks

Directions

Combine all chicken ingredients in a resealable plastic bag. Marinate in the refrigerator for two hours. Discard marinade. Place chicken chunks on skewers and grill over medium-high heat, turning every two to three minutes. Cook until thermometer inserted in thickest pieces of chicken reads at least 165° F, about 15 minutes. Remove from heat and keep warm.

While chicken is cooking, place vegetables on skewers. When chicken is off grill, place vegetables on heat and grill for about seven minutes.

Adapted from recipe by Bob Blumer (www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/build-your-ownshish-kabobs-recipe-1951931)

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Food Truck Fare

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Story and photos by Adam Cole

Editor’s Note: Food trucks are increasing in popularity around Jefferson City, offering original, delicious dishes that meet just about every taste for hungry patrons. Find out more about five local food trucks and their creative culinary treats to please anyone’s inner foodie.

REO Feedwagon

The Truck

There’s a consistent theme with the REO Feedwagon, which has been parked just outside of The Bridge music venue for a little under a year now: necessity.

Denise Wingate and Wes Wingate showcase one of their original creations at the REO Feedwagon, which is based at The Bridge.

The Feedwagon came about as a cost-effective means for having a restaurant for the venue, said Wes Wingate, co-owner of The Bridge.

“It’s odd, I’ll admit that,” Wingate said. “I was going to put a kitchen in and the way this building is built, putting a hood unit in so I could have a fryer … a deep fryer obviously creates really hot, dangerous oily smoke, so the hood unit and the piping (cost) would’ve been crazy. So I thought, ‘I’ll buy a trailer for a third of the cost, put it outside and do whatever we want.’”

The Feedwagon has done catering events, served Sunday brunches, been open for several happy hours and appeared at multiple Food Truck Fridays at the Bridge. However, the trailer has yet to actually go mobile.

“I’ve been waiting to hear an offer good enough to make it worth moving because this is an entire kitchen,” said Denise Wingate, a relative to Wes and the Feedwagon’s chef and operator. “There’s a Deepfreeze and refrigerator, fryer and a flat top. There’s dishes and pots and pans and spices and ingredients, and you’ve got to clean the fryer and you’ve got to secure everything. It’s just a big process, so I’ve just been waiting for the right offer and we got one.”

The Feedwagon’s main purpose isn’t so much about going mobile.

“It’s got to be worth it to take it somewhere,” he said. “If it makes sense for us to do it, we’ll do it. Otherwise, its main purpose is to serve as a restaurant for our little music venue.”

The Food

The food at the Feedwagon takes on a similar feel to the Feedwagon itself in that it’s simple and satisfying. The menu, which includes items named “The Zappa,” “B.B. King,” “Glenn Fries” and “The Eye of the Thai-ger,” is born of a family full of artists in the Wingates.

“We just sit around and try to think of a food pun that is somehow rock ‘n’ roll and go from there,” Wes Wingate said.

The Chopin mixes The Zappa and the B.B. King, creating a mountain of delicious meat in one of REO Feedwagon’s most popular dishes.

Beyond the names, the menu items are efficient, affordable creations that include hot dogs, pulled pork sandwiches, loaded french fries, lettuce wraps and poutine.

“Necessity I guess being the mother of invention there,” Wes Wingate said on the creation of his menu. “I guess mostly out of what is practical to being open just a few days a week. … What’s universally liked and fairly cheap to make and cheap to sell. It’s expanded since then. That was the initial thing: pulled pork and hot dogs; it’s not rocket science but, adding the lettuce wraps and adding different things, we’re just kind of adding as we go.”

According to Denise, there’s too many good items on the menu for her to have just one favorite, but if she had to pick one, it’d be the B.B. King, which she said is just pulled pork on a brioche bun. Menu items can range from anything as simple as the B.B. King to the Chopin, Wes’s favorite item. It’s “The Zappa with the B.B. King,” essentially a split, seared hot dog with pulled pork sitting atop it.

The REO Feedwagon sits at The Bridge music venue at 619 E. Capitol Ave. Find the Feedwagon on Facebook @reofeedwagon for hours and events.

Love My Gelato

The Truck 

For Don and Diane Irwin, co-owners and operators of Love My Gelato, their passion and interest for gelato started about a decade ago in the streets of Florence, Italy, while on vacation.

“You can’t throw a rock and not hit a gelato shop in Italy,” Don said.

After their trip, the Irwin family searched for gelato in every city they traveled to in the United States, but it wasn’t until a trip to Phoenix in 2015 that the family found a gelato shop that tasted just like what they’d had in Florence.

Don and Diane Irwin, co-owners and operators of Love My Gelato, create their fresh gelato and delectable original gelato flavors in their kitchen before taking them on the road aboard their food truck.

“While we were there, we stopped at a place called Frost Gelato and it was every bit as good as what we had in Italy,” Don said. “We went during the day and then we actually came back that evening. Well, the line was out the door and down the block. So I’m thinking, ‘Alright, There’s a market for it.’ So I started to do a little research.”

From there, Don and his son, Kyle, completed a weeklong class on gelato making and the family laid out plans for not only equipment, but a mobile business plan that would, “take our business to the people instead of counting on people coming to us,” Don said.

“There’s still an investment,” Don said. “It takes something to build like this. To put the equipment in that you need, but there again, when you’re mobile it’s not like you’re waiting for somebody to show up. You can go find them.”

The Food

Love My Gelato offers a multitude of both gelatos and sorbets, with 23 flavors total. Those flavors range from things as simple as biscoff and stracciatella (vanilla gelato with dark chocolate chips), to unique tastes like pistachio and avocado basil.

With less butter fat used, more intense flavors and a denser product, it’s almost as if gelato is the handsome Italian cousin of ice cream.

According to Don, there’s a larger difference between ice cream and gelato than one might think. With less butter fat used, more intense flavors and a denser product, it’s almost as if gelato is the handsome Italian cousin of ice cream.

“It’s just a different experience,” Don said. “This tastes like ice cream, but it’s a little bit softer, a little bit smoother.”

While Love My Gelato normally does business out of their mobile trailer, a lot of work gets done in the “Gelaboratory,” a self-named commissary that also serves as a fully-equipped test kitchen where the product is made and flavor concepts become reality.

“It’s really just kind of limited to your imagination in terms of the different combinations put together,” Don said. “Last year being the first year I think we were, at least I was, a little hesitant to venture out too far just because we knew we had some stuff that came out right and I didn’t want to vary that too much, but I’m a little more confident now. I know that as long as I stick in the parameters of recipes I can try just about anything I want to.”

Love My Gelato, which started on July 4, 2017, operates out of a custom-made food trailer, that can be seen at local Jefferson City events and as a booth during the Capital City Farmers Market. Find Love My Gelato on Facebook @lovemygelato for events and contact information.

Rebel Tacos

The Truck 

The inspiration for Rebel Tacos appeared for co-owners Andrea Young and Emily Reinkemeyer while on vacation in Mexico, however, the idea for serving up meals on wheels was one that, according to Young, Reinkemeyer had long wanted to act on.

“Emily has been in food service all of her life and she always wanted to do a food truck,” Young said. “She can make anything, but she had no idea how to narrow it down and we’re eating tacos and she’s like, ‘This is it.’”

After their Mexico trip, Young and Reinkemeyer searched for trucks, purchased one in September of 2017 and opened Rebel Tacos in December 2017. The truck operates primarily in the Jefferson City area, usually being open for lunch a few days a week and also works events. Young said the truck really wants to have put emphasis on being a local business.

Rebel Tacos has appreciated the companionship other food trucks in Jefferson City have given them, as well as the community.

“We go to Columbia sometimes, maybe a few times a months, but they have food trucks,” Young said. “Jeff City doesn’t have food trucks – well, we do have some – but we (Emily and I) live here. We want to keep it local as much as possible.”

Young also noted that, since opening in September, not only citizens of Jefferson City, but the city’s food truck community, has embraced the taco truck with open arms.

“We did not think we would be this busy,” Young said. “Jeff City has embraced us, and working together with other places like the (REO) Feedwagon and Luke at Ready Popped; he’s been an amazing resource for us. And Carla and Tiffany from Eat. Crepe. Love. have been great to us. I didn’t really think that Jeff City would embrace it as much as they have, but the people have and the businesses have, and all of the other trucks have been great.”

The Food

Rebel Tacos offers a fairly simple menu of tacos, quesadillas and tacos dorados, or fried tacos, with a revolving door of meats or toppings for tacos and quesadillas.

The truck started with a basic menu of beef, chicken and pork, but since the start, things have evolved and the truck now has a longer list of options, including carne asada, barbacoa, shrimp or fish and fried avocado.

Rebel Tacos serves up a variety of scrumptious tacos, quesadillas and more with unique flavors and savory sides.

The truck offers chips and salsa or street corn as a side. You can also buy Rebel Tacos T-shirts at the truck and the truck features some hybrid food combinations from time to time, Young said.

“Emily also loves mac and cheese, so we do a steak and mac ‘n’ cheese taco at times,” Young says. “It’s something that she just started doing one day, so we do it.”

Yet the fried avocado taco is apparently a “sleeper hit,” Young added.

“We were joking about, ‘People are going to want something fried,’” she added. “‘People are going to want like french fries, but who gets french fries at a taco truck? So we made up the avocado taco and it’s taken off. People that don’t even like avocado love this taco. It’s amazing. It’s crunchy, it’s been the biggest hit and surprise.”

You can find Rebel Tacos on Facebook @rebeltacos or on Instagram @rebeltacosjcmo for events and contact information.

Ready Popped

The Truck

When Luke Ready, owner of Ready Popped, began making batches of kettle corn seven years ago, the plan wasn’t to start a food truck or even start a business.

Luke Ready serves up some of his freshly popped kettle corn from his food truck.

“The guy who normally did it got sick in our local parish,” Ready said, “so I was going to do it until he came back and paid off the machine and do it for fundraising. Before I knew it, we had four or five other parishes calling for us to come out to theirs and we were making a business out of it.”

Ready Popped, which began seven years ago, was just a local fundraiser for St. Francis Xavier parish in Taos. Since then, it’s expanded into its own kettle corn and popcorn business, operating out of a store that ships and wholesales, as well as using a truck that operates almost every weekend at events in the Jefferson City area.

Before the Ready Popped trailer ever came around, the business used a basic table and canopy set up at events for around four years.

“We literally just used tents and canopies and started popping out of that,” Ready said. “We lost six or seven (canopies) one year and my wife finally said, ‘Either you’re buying a trailer or I’m done,’ So I bought a trailer.”

Ready said things actually slowed down for his business after buying a trailer, but after three years with it, things have turned around.

“The first year (with a trailer) we were actually a little bit – not slower, but people didn’t recognize us,”

Ready said, “but now the trailer helps people recognize us.”

While Ready Popped works at least one event a weekend, Ready said the business makes about a third of its profits through either fundraising or corporate gifts. “It’s a good outlet for us to get our product our there to get people to try it,” he added.

The Food

When Ready Popped started, the business made just one flavor. It’s expanded to make 13 different flavors of popcorn and kettle corn, as well as pork rinds. Ready said his favorite part of the business is experimenting with new types.

Caramel kettle corn is one of Ready Popped’s top sellers.

“Trying new flavors, creating them,” Ready said of his favorite thing about the job. “It’s also probably the most frustrating because you think you have it and then it doesn’t turn out the way you want.”

Ready said his business only made kettle corn its first two years and then added caramel corn in year three, as well as pork rinds at about the same time. It wasn’t until just last year that the business started adding new flavors to its menu.

Ready Popped’s current menu includes the basic flavors like basic buttered popcorn and kettle corn, but also has a blend of savory and sweet flavors like jalapeño cheddar, dill pickle, cookies and cream, peanut butter and a multi-colored funfetti flavor. Even with all of those options, Ready said his favorite flavor, kettle corn, is still a top seller.

“The kettle corn by far, and then it goes caramel corn,” Ready said of his best selling flavors. “And then it’s kind of split between cookies and cream and peanut butter.”

You can find Ready Popped on Facebook @ReadyPopped and at www.readypopped.com for events and contact information.

Street Dawgs

The Truck

During the lunch hour rush and nestled in the far southeast corner of the State Capitol lawn, one might spot workers pouring in from the Truman building and Attorney General’s office to form a line at Street Dawgs, a locally owned and operated hot dog cart.

Jason Allabaugh, owner and operator of Street Dawgs, decided that he wanted the cart to be his new form of cash flow after medically retiring from the military in 2016.

Jason Allabaugh, owner and operator of Street Dawgs, decided that he wanted the cart to be his new form of cash flow after medically retiring from the military in 2016.

“My wife asked me, ‘Well, what are you going to do when you retire,’ and I said, ‘I want to open a hot dog cart,’” Allabaugh said. “She said, ‘You’re crazy.’ I said, ‘Well, nobody has one in town.’ So I just said, ‘I’m going to roll with it,’ and it’s been a blast ever since.”

Allabaugh said a big reason why he was inspired to open the cart was based on some of the local eats he had growing up on both the East and West coasts.

Allabaugh starts his days about 7:30 a.m. when the cart’s scheduled to open, but when he begins set up at about 10:15 a.m., he pre-cooks about 40 hot dogs. He sells double that on a regular lunch rush.

The Food

Street Dawgs offers a menu that often goes in rotation depending on sales, the season or however often the customer up to order frequents Allabaugh’s business. Allabaugh’s gotten a fair amount of regulars over the past couple of years, some so regular they hardly need to place their order once they get to the front of the line.

The cart’s menu features hot dogs with just ketchup and mustard, but as with many food trucks or trailers, Allabaugh’s cart offers hot dogs with eye-popping pairings.

“During the summer time, I do what’s called the Sloppy Dog,” Allabaugh said. “It’s like barbecue beef brisket, with coleslaw on top and people have asked for it even since February.

The Mac Daddy includes mac and cheese and bacon crumbles.

On top of the Hot Chick and the Sloppy Dog, the menu also includes the Popper Dog, which includes cream cheese and jalapeños, and the Mac Daddy, which includes mac and cheese and bacon crumbles. Although he may cook them, Allabaugh said he’s not the brainchild behind most of the crazy, however tasty, concoctions. Instead, Allabaugh credits his wife Tiffany with the bulk of the menu’s creations.

“My wife, I owe it to her actually to come up with the ideas,” Allabaugh said. “She comes up with these crazy ideas and says, ‘Try this, try that,’ and I’m like ‘OK.’ She’s pretty much the brains behind it.”

You can find Street Dawgs on Facebook @StDawgs for events and contact information.

Other food trucks frequenting Jefferson City

Eat. Crepe. Love. 

Offering both savory and sweet crepes – the French version of the pancake – with customized creations including Bacon Jalapeño Popper or Berry Love. Eat. Crepe. Love. caters lots of events in Mid-Missouri. Find out more at https://eatcrepelove.wordpress.com or find them on Facebook @eatcrepelovemo.

Jamaican Jerk Hut 

Frequently stationed at Jeff City businesses and events, the Jerk Hut delivers authentic Jamaican dishes including jerk chicken or pork steak, oxtail, curry boat, Rasta Lemonade, Jamaican Soda and much more. For upcoming events and information find then on Facebook @JamJerkHut.

Rolling Revelry

Popular and award-winning catering business Jefferson City-based Revel Catering and Events can take its delicious fare on the road with its gourmet food truck to corporate meetings, wedding rehearsals, galas, family reunions and much more. Find out more at reveljcmo.com.

Ozark Mountain Biscuit Co. 

This Columbia-based food truck offers savory and sweet concoctions all on homemade biscuits, including Ozark Originals like the Boss Hog and Sunnyland Sides such as cornbread, fried tators and simmered greens. For more information visit ozarkmountainbiscuits.com or find them on Facebook @OzarkMountainBiscuitCo.

The Big Cheese

Gourmet grilled cheese sandwiches such as Pig Mac, the Reuben Melt or The Italian, as well as sweet treats like The S’more, are making The Big Cheese food truck out of Columbia a Mid-Missouri favorite. Find out more on Facebook @TheBigCheeseMizzou.

Lilly’s Cantina 

Lilly’s Cantina is a gourmet catering company and food truck based in Columbia providing traditional Mexican food with a gourmet edge, or as they call it “Baja Midwest Fusion.” Offering appetizers, nachos, quesadillas, tacos and burritos such as “The O.G. Cali Burrito” and “The Rooster,” visitors of all tastes can find the perfect fit for their palate. Find out more at lillyscantina.com or on Facebook @lillyscantinacomo.

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Creating Unkamen doesn’t make typical jewelry

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Story and photos by Josie Musico

Karen Helmrich is not one to be accused of making normal jewelry. Now, the area designer’s store in downtown Fulton lives up to its business name. Creating Unkamen – pronounced “uncommon” – is a jewelry and jewelry-supply company.

“We were sort of an uncommon family, and we were doing an uncommon thing,” Helmrich said. “I just thought I would spell it a little differently to make it a little more…” – she paused, then added with a laugh – “uncommon.”

Customers can purchase necklaces, bracelets and other trinkets, or request their own custom creations. For example, a daughter in search of a Mother’s Day gift might tell Helmrich her mom is a fan of birds and her favorite color is blue. Then, the designer would create a necklace with those themes.

“A lot of what we create is customer-inspired, and I think that’s why my business has been so successful– because I’ve listened to my customers,” Helmrich said. “I enjoy helping people make something special. That’s where my greatest sense of satisfaction comes from.”

Creating Unkamen’s Fulton Brick District location, 528 Court St., is the brick-and-mortar version of an online business Helmrich and her family started 10 years ago. In its early days, she and her husband, Ralph, made only jewelry. While homeschooling their two children, Leah and Byron, they sold their creations on the e-commerce website Etsy.

But the Helmrichs had an obstacle – the quality of their jewelry-making supplies did not meet their satisfaction. That realization inspired them to start making their own. Soon, the family was selling more supplies than finished jewelry.

“Our supply sales took over the majority of our business,” Helmrich said. Now, she estimates about 90 percent of the company’s sales come from supplies, and the remaining 10 percent from jewelry. A glimpse around one of the main rooms near the store’s front entrance reveals cabinets with dozens of drawers. Each is stocked with hundreds of tiny circular components known as jump rings.

Helmrich explained their purpose: “The basic building block of jewelry is a jump ring, and that’s what we’re known for. We can make them out of all sorts of materials and all sorts of sizes. … We’ve made jump rings from every imaginable material – copper, brass, aluminum, silicone, gold, sterling silver.”

Jewelry lovers with sensitive skin might prefer Creating Unkamen’s jump rings made from niobium and titanium.

“They’re distinctive, they’re hypoallergenic and they’re a lot of fun,” Helmrich said. “We can make a (sensitive) woman able to wear fun, fancy jewelry again.”

Jump rings are used mainly to connect jewelry components to each other. A few of Creating Unkamen’s pieces use them wider than that, though. For example, one bracelet on display is made entirely of jump rings – about 800 of them. Helmrich estimates it took eight to 10 hours to complete; she compares the process to crocheting.

Creating jump rings involves winding wire over a steel tube, cranking it to make a coil, then cutting it.

“We can do this in multiple wire shapes,” inventory manager Travis Lane said, as he demonstrated the hand rig. “The possibilities are pretty much endless.”

With the gadget, Lane can crank out more than 1,000 rings in a hour. Production speed, though, is not Creating Unkamen’s main goal.

“We do have the capacity to make large volumes, but what we’re really known for is custom work,” Helmrich said.

Production methods are not necessarily a business secret. Creating Unkamen often hosts jewelry-making events, and has more than 200 online tutorials.

But can anyone learn to make jewelry? Well, that depends on what the designer is trying to make – some pieces are harder than others.

“I think you need mostly the desire to do it,” Helmrich said. “I think anybody can make some form of jewelry, but some jewelry can take skills that would take years to develop.”

Creating Unkamen still holds a large presence online. It’s the nation’s fifth-highest Etsy store, and biggest shop that sells handmade items.

“We’re kind of a big deal on Etsy,” Helmrich said with a modest laugh.

When she decided to expand the company to a physical store, Helmrich relocated from her longtime home in Rolla. The Brick District spot was available, and she liked its surroundings.

“This area really felt like it was the perfect fit,” she said. “It features other small businesses, and has kept the quaint appeal of small-town America.”

For more information about Creating Unkamen, visit creatingunkamen.com or on Facebook @creatingunkamen.

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Digging their Doggie’s Day Out

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Ava Pratt and Jack Schaben win contest

Story and photos by Samantha Pogue

Meet Ava Pratt and Jack Schaben.

Ava is a 4 1/2-month-old labradoodle, who loves to play tug-a-war with her big brother Ozzie, being chased with a ball in her mouth and going for walks. Lisa Pratt said she is growing very fast, recently outgrowing her collar and harness. She also plays with every toy given to her and loves all treats.

Jack is a 14-month-old miniature schnauzer. Sarah Schaben and her husband wanted to get a smaller dog after their beloved boxer passed away. A misunderstanding led the Schabens to think they were getting a 4-month-old puppy, when in fact they got a 4 pound, full-grown mini schnauzer. It didn’t matter. They instantly fell in love with the pup, who loves the wind in his face while cruising on the family boat and snuggling up to just about anyone he meets.

Ava and Jack were randomly chosen from more than 90 entries into HER Magazine and the News Tribune’s inaugural Doggie’s Day Out contest, each receiving prizes from co-sponsoring businesses and making new friends along the way.

The Dirty Dog Grooming Salon & Doggie Daycare

 Jack had never had a professional haircut since the Schabens got him in March. Sarah was ecstatic to chat with Leslie Vieth, owner of co-sponsor Dirty Dog Grooming Salon & Doggie Daycare, about the grooming package she won.

“Grooming includes bath, haircut, nail trim, ears cleaned and anal glands expressed,” Leslie said. “We also offer teeth brushing, deshedding treatments, bath and brush, flea and tick baths and toe nail polishing.”

Living about a half-hour away in Meta and working in Jefferson City, Sarah was also interested in the business’s doggie day care. Leslie said she wanted to offer a service for socialization for dogs, as well as if a dog needs medications after surgery, their owner is out running errands or just needs a place to stay for a short time.

“We don’t have activities for the dogs or outdoor runs, just a relaxed atmosphere where they can hang out,” she said.

Leslie understands that socialization, love and care is important for all pets and their owners, always having dogs and cats growing up. That love of animals was inherited from her mom and dad, who frequently rescued canines. As an adult, Leslie has adopted that same passion for rescue and shelter animals, owning three – a dachshund mix called Tucker, a pug named Minnie and a white Persian cat named Lucy.

“I’m a big believer in finding the animals a forever home,” she said, noting she is planning a customer appreciation day/fundraiser for the Jefferson City Animal Shelter later this summer. “I’m thinking of a dog self-wash (station) or free nail trimming, and refreshments served with donations to the shelter. Our shelter does a great job and I’d like to be able to give back something to them. That’s where I got Tucker.”

Leslie started dog grooming right out of high school, learning from the original owner of Canine Clippers. However, she worked in the medical field for several years, grooming part-time for family, friends and acquaintances. After her mother, Judy, had a car accident, she decided she didn’t want to be 45 minutes away anymore. She found a great, vacant location to get back into grooming full-time and opened Dirty Dog Grooming Salon & Doggie Daycare.

 “My vision is to have a successful business where I can offer a quality service at a reasonable price,” she said. “It’s a great job; I get to play with dogs all day! I opened March 2015. It’s hard to believe I’m in my fourth summer.”

Dirty Dog Grooming Salon & Doggie Daycare is located at 2422 C Hyde Park Road. For more information and details on the upcoming fundraiser, call 573-634-DOGS (3647) or visit them on Facebook @jcdirtydog.

Culver’s

 With high heat in mid-June, both Jack and Ava were in need of cooling off with a sweet, cold treat. Thanks to co-sponsoring business Culver’s in Jefferson City, each enjoyed a free pup cup at the restaurant’s pet-friendly patio.

Allen Walz, who co-owns and operates the Jefferson City Culver’s with wife Gretchen and daughter Kendall, said he and his family are huge pet lovers, joking they have “too many dogs to count.” To share their love of pets, they offer a free pup cup – Culver’s signature cold-pressed vanilla custard in a cup with a doggie bone – to a family’s furry friends. They will also serve up a special vanilla custard treat for feline relatives, too.

The national chain is known for its delicious premium ice cream, which uses the finest dairy from Wisconsin, cold-pressed vanilla and Dutch-blend chocolate, and is made fresh in each Culver’s restaurant throughout the day.

“We run the custard through a machine that whips it, blends it and makes the light, perfected taste that you enjoy every day at Culver’s,” said Allen Walz, who opened a Culver’s franchise with Gretchen, in 2009 and recently expanded their family owned and operated business with Kendall running a second Culver’s franchise in O’Fallon, Missouri.

Culver’s uses its decadent custard in an array of desserts, including cones, dishes, concrete mixers, shakes and sundaes. Culver’s serves up a flavor of the day and makes 15 to 20 pints of that flavor every day for patrons to purchase and take home. Walz said their food and dessert menu are equally popular, with its variety of signature ButterBurgers, sandwiches, onion rings and cheese curds being some of the best sellers.

Culver’s of Jefferson City is located at 1920 Jefferson St. For more information, call 573-415-1897 or visit Culvers.com/restaurants/jeffersoncity or on Facebook @CulversJeffersonCity.

Premium Pets

Grooming and a snack out was also paired with goodies both Jack and Ava could enjoy at home.

Prior to their visits to co-sponsor Premium Pets, owner Brittany Schlup got to know both pups and selected food, treats and toys that would match their stature, age and likes. Before they left, Ava and Jack also liked getting to know Brittany’s own pride and joy, a Shih Tzu mix named Rolle. He is one of the main reasons why the California, Missouri, native decided to open up Premium Pets with a grand opening last October.

Shortly after Brittany married Brad, who works for the Sheet Metal Workers union, in 2011, the couple got Rolle. Despite a degree in journalism from the University of Missouri in Columbia, Brittany worked at her alma mater in college access, retention and higher education from 2011-2017. In finding more healthy food options free of fillers and additives for Rolle, Brittany began researching and shopping at locally owned Lizzi and Rocco’s Natural Pet Market in Columbia.

Brittany’s passion for high-quality, affordable pet food and products rose to the top of her list of ideas in starting her own business, a goal she had for some time. Through the help and guidance of the Women’s Business Center in Columbia, the MU Extension Office and the SCORE mentor program, she discovered there was a need to fill for pet owners in Jefferson City and opened up Premium Pets.

Natural food from top brands like Diamond Pet Company’s Naturals, Prey and Taste of the Wild lines, gourmet treats (most of which are made in Missouri), accessories, toys (many of which have a one-time product replacement guarantee), leashes, pet related items and more specifically for dogs and cats make up Premium Pets popular inventory.

Pet owners also love using Premium Pets’ self-wash station, which is do-it-yourself for a small fee but has shampoo, towels, dryers and other amenities all provided. With these products and services, as well as Brittany’s special fundraising events for important local animal-related organizations and partnerships with fellow locally-owned businesses, she has seen positive feedback and increasing success with Premium Pets.

“The feedback has been very encouraging and uplifting. We have got really good support from people and they love seeing this business on the east end of town. It is a great location, has high traffic and in an area that is trying to revitalize itself,” she said. “We love being here and opening up a business has been very positive and successful.”

Premium Pets is located at 700 E. McCarty St. For more information, call 573-896-1092 or visit PremiumPetsjc.com or on Facebook @premiumpetsjc.

Shed, Bath and Beyond Pet Grooming

 Lisa Pratt was ecstatic to find out Ava won a free grooming package from co-sponsor Shed, Bath and Beyond Grooming, where she already takes Ava and Ozzie for their haircuts and other pet care needs.

The business’s busy owner and lead groomer, Jennifer Collings, didn’t hesitate to greet Ava and Ozzie, chatting with Lisa and discussing their Doggies Day Out prize. The standard groom includes a full massage bath, nail trim, ear cleaning, anal gland expression, sanitary clip, hairstyle of the client’s choice and bandana and fragrance. Jennifer also included pet shampoo and conditioner.

Having pursued vocal music performance and obtained a degree from a St. Louis university in the trade, Jennifer changed career paths in 2005 when she came back to the Columbia area and started a pre-vet curriculum. She soon got a side job at a kennel in Columbia and its owner, a master groomer, offered Jennifer a pet grooming apprenticeship.

 Moving to the Jefferson City area after working a couple years at the kennel, Jennifer then groomed out of a veterinary clinic’s basement for three years until she established Shed, Bath and Beyond in 2009. In 2012, she moved her business from its original location to its current residence at 815 E. High.

Additional services include the FURminator de-shed treatment, medicated baths for fleas, dry skin and allergies, blueberry facial to moisturize and help remove tear stains, “pawdicures” that help moisturize dry, cracked pads and more. They also use organic, top-of-the-line shampoos that have no soaps or oils that will irritate or strip skin, as well as no-heat dryers and have climate-control in all the rooms.

“It is super comfortable and very safe for them. It is their spa,” Jennifer said.

Jennifer also hopes to expand her services once Shed, Bath and Beyond moves into a newly constructed facility, which is tentatively set to open in October.

For more information about Shed, Bath and Beyond, call 573-632-4DOG (4364) or visit ShedBathAndBeyond.com or on their Facebook page.

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